{"id":23479,"date":"2024-10-08T08:00:26","date_gmt":"2024-10-08T14:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/resources2.soundstrue.com\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23479"},"modified":"2024-10-07T10:36:50","modified_gmt":"2024-10-07T16:36:50","slug":"emily-nagoski-phd-pleasure-is-the-measure-how-to-have-sex-you-enjoy","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/resources2.soundstrue.com\/podcast\/emily-nagoski-phd-pleasure-is-the-measure-how-to-have-sex-you-enjoy\/","title":{"rendered":"Emily Nagoski, PhD: Pleasure Is the Measure: How to Have Sex You Enjoy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why is it so hard to talk about sex? How can we be a better friend <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> lover for our partner? What&#8217;s the secret to maintaining &#8220;the magic&#8221; that first brought us together? Acclaimed sex educator and <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">New York Times<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> bestselling author Emily Nagoski views these questions through a unique lens that centers pleasure\u2014not desire\u2014in her counseling work with struggling couples.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this podcast, Tami Simon speaks with Emily about the empowering insights in her newest book, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Listen now to their conversation on: breaking free from the desire imperative; the groundbreaking work of Helen Singer Kaplan; the dual control model of sexual response and the analogy of brakes and accelerators; &#8220;turning on the ons and turning off the offs&#8221;; reducing your stressors as a key aspect of centering pleasure in your life; friendship and admiration: two essentials for long-term relationships; trust, vulnerability, and emotional accessibility; creativity, play, and freedom; following your own rules; talking about sex; the fear of rejection; how &#8220;good communication gets you good sex; great communication gets you great sex&#8221;; incompatibility; the interplay of attraction and self-worth; body acceptance; and more.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Note: This episode originally aired on Sounds True One, where these special episodes of <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Insights at the Edge<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are available to watch live on video and with exclusive access to Q&amp;As with our guests. Learn more at <a href=\"https:\/\/join.soundstrue.com\/\">join.soundstrue.com<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":23480,"template":"","meta":{"_expiration-date-status":"","_expiration-date":0,"_expiration-date-type":"","_expiration-date-categories":[],"_expiration-date-options":[]},"categories":[391],"tags":[170],"contributor":[1128],"class_list":["post-23479","podcast","type-podcast","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships","tag-insights-at-the-edge","contributor-emily-nagoski-phd"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Emily Nagoski Phd Pleasure Is The Measure How To Have Sex...<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Listen to this Insights at the Edge podcast exploring emily nagoski phd pleasure is the measure how to have sex you enjoy. 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