{"id":19832,"date":"2022-12-21T10:56:22","date_gmt":"2022-12-21T17:56:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/resources2.soundstrue.com\/?post_type=transcript&#038;p=19832"},"modified":"2022-12-27T09:26:09","modified_gmt":"2022-12-27T16:26:09","slug":"finding-fulfillment-in-a-purpose-larger-than-you","status":"publish","type":"transcript","link":"https:\/\/resources2.soundstrue.com\/transcript\/finding-fulfillment-in-a-purpose-larger-than-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding Fulfillment in a Purpose Larger than You"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"pdfprnt-buttons pdfprnt-buttons-transcript pdfprnt-top-right\"><a href=\"https:\/\/resources2.soundstrue.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/transcript\/19832?print=print\" class=\"pdfprnt-button pdfprnt-button-print\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/resources2.soundstrue.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/pdf-print\/images\/print.png\" alt=\"image_print\" title=\"Print Content\" \/><span class=\"pdfprnt-button-title pdfprnt-button-print-title\">Print Transcript<\/span><\/a><\/div><p><b>Tami Simon:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Hello friends, my name\u2019s Tami Simon, and I\u2019m the founder of Sounds True. I want to welcome you to the Sounds True podcast, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Insights at the Edge<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. I also want to take a moment to introduce you to Sounds True\u2019s new membership community and digital platform. It\u2019s called Sounds True One. Sounds True One features original, premium, transformational docuseries, community events, classes to start your day and relax in the evening, special weekly live shows, including a video version of <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Insights at the Edge<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with an after-show community question-and-answer session with featured guests. I hope you\u2019ll come join us, explore, come have fun with us, and connect with others. You can learn more at join.soundstrue.com.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I also want to take a moment and introduce you to the Sounds True Foundation, our nonprofit that creates equitable access to transformational tools and teachings. You can learn more at soundstruefoundation.org, and in advance, thank you for your support.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let me introduce you to Lynne Twist. She is a global visionary and activist, cofounder of the Pachamama Alliance, working to preserve the Amazon rainforest and engage in community-based climate action. She\u2019s the founder of the Soul of Money Institute and the author of the bestselling book, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Soul of Money<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. She\u2019s been instrumental in raising tens of millions of dollars for social change projects over the last four decades, helping to end world hunger, alleviate poverty, and address all kinds of issues that relate to our health and the sustainability of the planet. She\u2019s the author of a new book, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Living a Committed Life: Finding Freedom and Fulfillment in a Purpose Larger Than Yourself<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Certainly something Lynne has done\u2014living a committed life\u2014and it\u2019s my great pleasure now to introduce you to Lynne Twist and to have her be with us here on <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Insights at the Edge<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Lynne Twist:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Thank you, Tami. I\u2019m so excited to be on your program and love you and love Sounds True and just love talking to you\u2014who doesn\u2019t?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>TS:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> In your new book <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Living a Committed Life<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you write that one of your superpowers, and I\u2019m\u00a0 going to emphasize one. But one of your superpowers is seeing possibility and speaking about it. And I thought to myself, I need to know more about this. I need to know more about it, because often, I\u2019m someone who sees kind of like the worst-case scenario. That\u2019s the first thing I see, and then I have to talk to other people and I start seeing possibility\u2014but I don\u2019t have that. I have it as a power but certainly not a superpower. And I see how valuable it is, and I\u2019d like to develop it. So talk to me about how this capacity lives in you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>LT: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Oh my goodness, no one\u2019s ever asked it quite that way\u2014so you\u2019re so good. Well, I don\u2019t know if there\u2019s any formula. I think it\u2019s a little bit the way I kind of was born, because I was a very happy child. But I also have learned that possibility is vital for us to create the future we want. When people don\u2019t have possibility, when it\u2019s tamped down, when it starts to evaporate, when it starts to disappear, that generative capacity that we all have to source ourselves and create a new future is also hampered. Especially when we\u2019re having a downer, a bad day, or when we have a breakdown, which everybody has. It\u2019s part of being human. So maybe one way of saying it, to you in answer to that question, is I realized I have a special love for possibility, a special love for generating futures that lift us out of the darkness, and I committed to that. When I used to work at The Hunger Project many years ago, people really counted on me for that, because that work was beautiful and continues to be, and it\u2019s also really hard.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re in a refugee camp after a war and people are starving and very few people have food and water and the situation is so dire, I learned somehow to see the spirit in people\u2014the magnificence of their commitment to stay alive, the love they have for their children\u2014to focus on that, which would give me access to generating possibility for them. So in many ways I think I developed it. I had it maybe to begin with and then I developed it, because it was necessary to get through the dark passages that I was in when I was working on hunger and poverty, and now it\u2019s just a muscle. I think it\u2019s a muscle, just like gratitude, which I know you\u2019re really good at. The more you exercise your tennis serve and practice it, the better you get. Same thing with generating possibilities, same thing with finding gratitude for anything and everything. So it\u2019s become a muscle, and people count on me for that. That\u2019s the other thing\u2014when people count on you for something, you have to deliver.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So in terms of how you get there, just when it\u2019s there, exercise it, strengthen it, and know that there\u2019s always a possibility. It\u2019s always there.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>TS: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So we\u2019re going to exercise this muscle together here, Lynne. You\u2019re my possibility trainer, so thank you. Seriously. Right now, during this time that we\u2019re in, I think for a lot of people it\u2019s hard to see the possibility of this time. We see the despair and feel the pain of this passage that we\u2019re in\u2014hopefully a passage to something filled with possibility. How do you see this time we\u2019re in?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>LT: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, I see it as a massive breakdown in every sector of society: the economy, our health, our democracy, our political landscape, our education system, even our religious faiths. In many cases, in breakdown\u2014and the big one is the climate crisis, global warming, everything related to that, species extinction. I could go on and on with that one, it\u2019s so gigantic. So I see this big giant breakdown as an epic passage for the human family and as massive, uncompromising feedback for us. If you look at it as feedback and look at it as a message from the mother, the Earth, everything comes from the Earth. I mean everything. This computer that I\u2019m looking at, the microphone I\u2019m speaking on, my coffee cup\u2014not just the plants, the animals, and the humans. But everything comes from the Earth, including the virus. I sometimes\u2014without stepping over the pain, the suffering, the loss of life, the dissolving of thousands of businesses, probably millions of them, economic downturn in country after country. Without stepping over that, acknowledging that and knowing you got COVID, I got COVID.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I got it several times, losing people we love, the tragedy of the pandemic. I also see the power of that disruption. And in many circles that I\u2019m in, with indigenous people, they see it as the response from the mother to a primordial yearning of the human species, to help us disrupt the way we were living that is inconsistent with the long-term future of life. We couldn\u2019t disrupt or interrupt the way we were living. We\u2019re so powerful, but not powerful enough to disrupt the trajectory that we\u2019re on that is inconsistent with our own survival and the survival of human life, at least on this planet. So the mother has disrupted us and will continue to, I hope\u2014funny to say that, but in a way\u2014until we find our way to a path that is consistent with the long-term future of life. So another way of saying it, there\u2019s a metaphor to use which I want to suggest.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve had three children. Many people listening, perhaps, have had children or know people who\u2019ve had children. And when you\u2019re pregnant and you don\u2019t know you\u2019re pregnant and you\u2019re in what\u2019s called morning sickness. You think you\u2019re sick, you really do feel ill, you throw up in the morning sometimes, you are exhausted, your energy is different, you want to eat strange things, you can\u2019t sleep sometimes. Until you go to the doctor, you think you\u2019re really sick. And then you find out you\u2019re pregnant. Oh, my God. Especially for people who wanted to get pregnant. There\u2019s a child in me, there\u2019s a new life forming. Then that context, that holding, that frame changes everything about the illness. You\u2019re still throwing up in the morning, you still need a nap in the afternoon, you still feel tired, but you\u2019re so excited to have people help you with your groceries. You\u2019re kind of proud of throwing up in the morning. You\u2019re kind of excited about having to take a nap because you\u2019re giving birth to new life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So one way of looking at what\u2019s going on right now that\u2019s so troubling is, we\u2019re in morning sickness for a species that\u2019s lost its way and that is pregnant with a new kind of human being. The pregnancy may be very, very long, and not every pregnancy produces a baby. But the pregnancy also will probably lead us to a very painful birth. Birth is not easy. The more it hurts, the closer are you to having a baby\u2014I remember that when I was having my kids. So that\u2019s a metaphor. It\u2019s merely a metaphor, but it\u2019s a conversation to live in, to understand that perhaps this is happening, as Paul Hawkins says, \u201cnot to us but for us.\u201d If we can receive the feedback, incorporate it, and know that the great mother, the Earth or life or the divine, the power greater than us\u2014it\u2019s not a punishment. It\u2019s an ally to help us do what we all know deep in our hearts we need to do, which is change the trajectory of the way the human family is living on this planet and in the community of life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So that\u2019s generating a possibility for you, for me, and with every single breakdown that we have on planet Earth and the breakdowns we have in our life, which happen all the time. That\u2019s part of being human. One of the things that I like to remind us, perhaps, or name is that I think in the seeds of every breakdown, no matter how dark, are the seeds of a breakthrough that\u2019s bigger than that breakdown. Whether that\u2019s true or false, I live that way. And so far it\u2019s been pretty darn true. So what are the seeds in this breakdown that will give us a breakthrough that\u2019s way greater than the breakdown, that perhaps we\u2019ve been waiting for? So that\u2019s one way to look at the mess we\u2019re in and how to hold the light for the possibility.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>TS: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now Lynne, you use this phrase, \u201cTelling a new story.\u201d It goes right along with what you\u2019ve been saying. If we tell a different story\u2014we\u2019re pregnant, we\u2019re not just suffering with an illness\u2014it changes everything. You write, \u201cWe don\u2019t necessarily live in the reality of the world, we live in the conversation we have about the reality of the world. And that narrative, that conversation, is malleable. We can tell a new story.\u201d It seems to me that this is part of the muscle work of being a \u201cpossibilitarian,\u201d or whatever word you use for it, is telling a new story. My question to you is, how do you know? This malleable story, how do you know it\u2019s a real story and not just kind of the story you want to have happen? Or is there a difference? Or how do you see that?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>LT: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well I would say that, Tami Simon, your work is about this. Your work is about so many things, but in one dimension, all the Sounds True podcasts that I listen to, the beautiful books, the recordings, are all about creating conversations that empower us, that nurture us, that uplift us, that tell the divine truth. I think that\u2019s why you named it Sounds True. What is the sound of truth coming through? So I\u2019ll repeat what you said in my own way, and I know you read my words, but I don\u2019t think we really realize that we don\u2019t really live in our lives even. We don\u2019t really live in our relationships, we don\u2019t really live in our communities and our world. We live in the conversation we have about our lives. We live in the conversation we have about our relationships. We live in the conversation we have about our community and we have about our world. We can\u2019t always change immediately what\u2019s going on in our relationship, if we\u2019re having a snarl with someone that we care about, or we can\u2019t necessarily change immediately what\u2019s going on in our community.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But we have absolute omnipotence over the conversation we have about our lives, the conversation we have about our relationship, the conversation we have about our community. That\u2019s where the levers and dials of life are, where we can find access agency, sovereignty. So it\u2019s not true\/false, because I don\u2019t know that there\u2019s true\/false, really, in what I\u2019m talking about here. It\u2019s, how do you empower yourself so you stay centered in who you are and be able to generate the best possible self, the best possible me? I did a little course last week with a group of women, some of whom are having a downer about Christmas, Hanukkah, whatever it applies to. Because the holidays can be dark for some people who grew up in a divorced family where people were fighting at the table, or they were so sad when their mom or dad left or someone died. This time, sometimes it\u2019s not a joyful time for them. And we were looking at, what is it that people in those situations can do to use the levers and dials of conversation to have a holiday season that starts to change that mood, that way of feeling, that way of being.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And then the constant consumerist franticness and pressure. We have to buy, buy, buy, buy, buy. And so we talked about just exactly this. What are the levers and dials to shift that conversation from loneliness to being in the communion of life? To being in the \u201call one,\u201d which is the source of the word alone, and realize these are holy days? That\u2019s the source of the word \u201cholidays.\u201d And how can we get in touch with the wholeness, the holiness of life, the sacredness of life during this time, and not be going into that dark hole for some of those people? It\u2019s really, what is the conversation you\u2019re going to generate about the day? What is the conversation you\u2019re going to generate about the holidays? Rather than commiserate, where are you going to go to and who are you going to talk to? What\u2019s that conversation going to be that lifts you out of that and creates some joy?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because I say\u2014this is another thing that I think is really useful to imagine and this is once again what empowers us. Whether it\u2019s true or false I can\u2019t say, I don\u2019t know, but I think pain and joy are related. They\u2019re one. The more pain and suffering we are willing to allow ourselves to feel deeply, the more capacity we have to express joy. It\u2019s almost like it expands our capacity for joy, it expands our capacity to live fully. So to be in pain for as long as that\u2019s useful and you can tolerate it and really feel it can be helpful, and then coming out of it, is something that one needs to generate a new conversation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So I don\u2019t know, I can give you an example. Yesterday I was cranky and crabby when I woke up. I don\u2019t know why, but I was cranky and crabby and I was supposed to make a fundraising video for the Pachamama Alliance. My colleague Sara Vetter came over and was with her video camera and set up a whole thing and I said, \u201cI\u2019m too crabby, I can\u2019t do it.\u201d So what we did was, she sat with me, across from me on a stool, and I sat on the other side of the stool. We did this process where I complained and complained and complained and complained and complained and complained and said, \u201cI know I\u2019m right about this, and this makes me mad, and I\u2019m discouraged about this, and this made me upset, and I didn\u2019t like this about this and this when someone said this.\u201d She sat there, she said, \u201cI got it, thank you. What else? I got it, thank you. What else?\u201d She didn\u2019t try to fix it, she didn\u2019t try to make me feel better. She didn\u2019t do anything, she just let me what I call kind of dump. And at the end, when there was nothing left and she just kept saying, \u201cWhat else? What else? What else? What else?\u201d Then we reversed it, and I was a witness for her without trying to fix it or make her feel better or anything. Then we went for a walk\u2014the trees are so beautiful right now\u2014it made us cry. It was raining in the Bay Area, that\u2019s like heaven sent. We\u2019ve been desperate for rain, so the rain was glorious. We came back, and life was completely transformed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So we shifted our conversation. And we\u2019re the same people, the circumstances are the same, all the things we complained about were still there. But we knew that we had the power to shift our conversation and therefore our experience of life. So whether you asked what\u2019s true, I don\u2019t know, I feel nature is true actually. That\u2019s one place where I can always find the truth for myself, or what I\u2019m calling the truth. But how I relate to what\u2019s going on is where I have power and where I have levers and dials\u2014where I have sovereignty.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>TS: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Living a Committed Life<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, one of the sections that impacted me the most\u2014so it\u2019s interesting here that you\u2019re talking about the relationship between great joy and deep pain\u2014is the section on being proximate to suffering, and that willingness that you\u2019ve had in your own life as an activist to get right close to suffering, and how that\u2019s changed you. I wonder if you could share a story about that, your own willingness to be proximate to suffering and how you did it? That\u2019s part of what I\u2019m really into, how you did it without saying, \u201cNo way, this is too much. No thank you, I\u2019ll go back to the hotel.\u201d Or whatever in your travels. How you did it and how it changed you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>LT: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Oh, God. Well gosh, I did it because it was there. But I realized how powerful it was and that\u2019s why I wrote about that. Also, Bryan Stevenson is one of my great heroes, and I don\u2019t know if you\u2019ve interviewed him. But he started the Equal Justice Initiative and he works with people who are on death row and that phrase actually directly comes from him: \u201cStay proximate to suffering.\u201d I think if we don\u2019t allow ourselves to have some experience of suffering\u2014and now we all have our own suffering\u2014but really profound suffering of other people, we may live a more inauthentic life, if I can put it that way. But let me tell a story, so I\u2019ll tell the story of the Ethiopian women. Would that be the right one?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So I worked for The Hunger Project for many years and after the 1984, 1985 famine in Ethiopia, which was one of the most horrendous famines in the history of the world. A million people died, most of them children under five, in the Rift Valley of Ethiopia, and I was there after that famine. I wasn\u2019t there during that famine, but after that famine. I found myself in a setting that was sitting around a dry well with seven Ethiopian women, all of whom were mothers who had lost every single child to starvation, their babies, their teenager, their 10-year-old, every single woman, every single child had starved to death in their arms. It\u2019s unimaginable to lose a child. I think any of us who have children can\u2019t even imagine it or have lost one. It\u2019s the most profoundly tragic thing you could possibly experience or imagine. These women lost every child and they were there and could not feed them, had no water, had no food, and in one case, a woman shared that the baby died at her breast because she had no milk. She hadn\u2019t had water in so many days and she looked down, and the baby had stopped suckling and even trying and was dead. So anyway, it\u2019s a long story but we sat around the dry well and, consistent with their tradition, they wanted to acknowledge the life and death of each child and tell the story of each child and tell the story of their excruciating death. And so one woman had lost 11 children. I mean this took a long time. It was five days and five nights, and they would tell the story of little Muhammad. The mother would say, \u201cLittle Muhammad was four, he was walking towards a mirage. He thought he saw water on the ground and then he fell. And I went to get him and he was dead.\u201d Then she would talk about what that was like, and then she would start crying, and we would all cry. You couldn\u2019t help it. And they would wail and keen, is another way of talking about what they\u2019re doing. Keen, screaming, crying for little Muhammad. Then we\u2019d take a break and then we would talk about Malika, who died at her breast. And same process, keen, cry, and it went for days and nights, days and nights.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I mean, it\u2019s hard to even talk about this without crying myself, because it was so exhausting. Emotionally huge, like nothing I ever had before or since. And by the time we were done\u2014five days and five nights\u2014we were just completely wiped out, but they were free. The women were free. In a way, I can\u2019t really put words around it, but they were free. So that last day, each one of them made a commitment, and I was their witness, to spend the rest of their life getting educated. They didn\u2019t read or write. So that they would be able to live in a way that would at least contribute to having no other mothers have that horrible, horrendous experience of having their children starve to death in their arms. So I was a witness to that, and it was super inspiring. I mean, it was just incredible that they made that commitment, and they bonded together, we hugged, you can imagine it. So right after that, I had an appointment, or in my schedule a commitment, to meet with an investment club in New York of women investors.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve been fundraising all my life, as you pointed out, and I\u2019ve raised hundreds of millions of dollars, and they wanted to talk to me about The Hunger Project. But they also want to talk to me about their relationship with money. And so I went to New York right after Ethiopia, and I was sitting in a Park Avenue apartment that was so beautiful and so opulent. It happened to be seven women, same number, women dressed to the nines in designer clothes. Just beautiful, gorgeous wives of Wall Street merger and acquisition guys probably. I don\u2019t know, but whoever they were married to had made plenty of money. And I couldn\u2019t tell them anything except about the women in Ethiopia. It would just come out of me like a fountain and we cried, all seven of us and myself, about these women and what they\u2019d gone through from the tragedy. But also from how inspired I was by them actually. And then at some point, all of us realized seven women, seven women, and the women I was meeting with in New York had a different kind of hunger.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Hunger Project really has always been about the front and the backside of the hand of hunger. The front side of the hand of hunger\u2014hunger, malnutrition, physical hunger, starvation, malabsorptive hunger\u2014the backside of the hand of hunger it\u2019s related, it\u2019s the same. It\u2019s the hunger for meaning in our lives, the hunger to make a difference, the hunger to matter. And the women in New York were desperately starving here while the women in Ethiopia were hungry here or had gone through that experience. So we put these two hungers together and The Hunger Project\u2014and here it was in front of my face: seven women in New York desperately hungry for meaning, seven women in Ethiopia hungry to make a difference with their life also now. And we put them together. We decided to put them together and, as you can imagine, it was a miraculous, not haves with have nots\u2014not H-A-L-V-E-S, H-A-V-E-S, H-A-V-E-S.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These women had incredible skills, courage, depth. The women in Ethiopia knew the local language, knew how to navigate a corrupt government, got themselves educated from kindergarten all the way through getting\u2014three of them got PhDs, one became a lawyer, and these women made resources available to these women. But the resources that these women gave to these women were resources that they needed: strength, courage, spirit, inspiration, vision, making a difference with their lives and the children of these women who were entitled, kind of. Raising kids with a lot of money is hard to do well, and their kids went to Ethiopia. I mean, it was miraculous for all of them and that was when I&#8230; These women, being proximate to these women\u2019s suffering when they had to pull themselves out of poverty and hunger. These women, being proximate to the suffering of the people in the affluent world, this deepened all of us. Deepened, expanded our hearts\u2014like busted us open, broke our hearts open in a way that I don\u2019t know what would\u2019ve happened otherwise. So that\u2019s what I mean. And I\u2019ve had thousands of experiences like that, and I\u2019ve taken people to the places maybe they would never experience. That deep understanding and proximity to suffering and pain is not something to be afraid of. In my life, I\u2019ve always moved toward it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At first, I thought I could be helpful, and maybe I have been, but I want to just quote Rachel Naomi Remen, who I think we both know. She says, \u201cHelping acknowledges that who and what you\u2019re working on is weak, fixing acknowledges or says that who or what you\u2019re working on is broken. Serving says who and what you\u2019re working on is whole.\u201d I moved from helping and fixing to serving. The closer I got to suffering, the more of a servant I\u2019ve become.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>TS: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, Lynne, I mean that\u2019s such a powerful and amazing story. I\u2019m also struck by you saying that it\u2019s one story of many in your life. I have one little question. When you said at the end of their days of grieving together, of which you were a part of, they were free. I was really moved by that. What in it, in the grieving, was so deep and thorough that they were free?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>LT: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t know how to answer that Tami, I just know that they were altered in their being. And it\u2019s almost as if there was some honorable closure, which I also write about in the book. They started to see they had something to live for. And before that, I think they might have taken their own lives, because being a childless mother in Ethiopia is not acceptable, and yet they were all childless mothers then. So they were free to live a new life, they were free to choose life, you might say, to go on. You give me the opportunity to say something else that you\u2019re not asking, but I\u2019ll say it anyway.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>TS: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Please.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>LT: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of my friends, Tracy Apple, who I worked very closely with. When her husband died very suddenly&#8230; She\u2019s a Buddhist, and she went into a very, very horrendous grief process, like anybody would when they lose the person they love most in the world. Her teacher\u2019s a wonderful Buddhist teacher out at Green Gulch here in the Bay Area and her teacher said to her, \u201cGrieving is really, really, really important. And what it is, is medicine for the attachment.\u201d I say that because there\u2019s something about that that\u2019s so powerful. Grieving is medicine for the attachment. And he said, \u201cWhen the grieving is complete, all that will be left is love, love not rooted in the attachment or colored by the attachment.\u201d This is a Buddhist phrase. But what will be left is unconditional love. And that\u2019s kind of what happened, I think, when I look at that. I\u2019ve never really thought about what you asked me to say. The attachment to being a mother maybe, and knowing that that\u2019s the only identity they had and there was no other. Perhaps they were free to choose a new identity. I don\u2019t know.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>TS: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lynne, what would you say to that person who heard what you just described and heard you say, \u201cI\u2019ve never shied away from suffering when it\u2019s been right in my face, I\u2019ve turned towards it.\u201d And the person who says, \u201cActually, I don\u2019t know if I can handle it so I\u2019ve turned away. I don\u2019t know if I can handle it. I want to help from a distance or something. But I don\u2019t know if I could.\u201d What would you say to that person?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>LT: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, I would say that they probably do turn towards suffering but in a different way than I do. When they lend a hand to someone in their life, maybe not an Ethiopian woman who lost all their children from starvation. That was an extreme example. But when a friend is hurting, when someone has a cancer diagnosis and you go to them right away and say, \u201cI\u2019m here for you.\u201d That\u2019s what I mean. Or when your daughter or son gets bullied at school and you hold them when they come home from school, just hold them close to you while they\u2019re crying or\u2014we all have suffering around us. We have our own suffering. We do move towards suffering in many, many ways other than the drama that I just described. So in my life, I\u2019ve had the opportunity and the circumstances to move towards the kind of suffering that, for some people, is totally unconformable, and it used to be for me too. I don\u2019t want to skip over that. It used to be for me too.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But part of the purpose of my book is to tell people, if you make a commitment larger than your own life, that commitment will come back and shape you into who you need to be to fulfill it. It\u2019s really powerful. We often think that Gandhi was born a genius and then he found a way to express it, yeah maybe. But maybe he was born and then he made a big commitment and it came back and shaped him into who he needed to be to fulfill that commitment. I say that\u2019s really the way it works. You make a commitment to run a marathon and it comes back and makes you someone who has the courage and the resolve to get through the days you don\u2019t want to run. And then you have that new strength, and then you have that new resolve. So I\u2019m suggesting that I made a big commitment, ending world hunger, and it made me into a kind of person who could be in those circumstances and tolerate that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But if your commitment is to be the best friend you can possibly be and make a difference in people\u2019s lives who move into your field, then you\u2019ll find a way to be with the people you care about in their darkest moments and be there for them. So it really depends on what your commitment is. I think all of us want to be of service, want to be of use, want to make a difference with our life. I think we want that almost more than anything, that\u2019s my ground of being. I can\u2019t prove that that\u2019s true, but that\u2019s been my experience. So I invite people to know that when your heart is breaking and people come into your field and hold you, that\u2019s something that you\u2019ve been doing all your life too, and that you\u2019ll do more and more and more of it. If you have a commitment larger than your own life, you\u2019ll have those opportunities. And when you step up to them and step into them, it expands your capacity for everything, not just to be with suffering but to be with this world and who you are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>TS: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now Lynne, you have had several commitments that you\u2019ve made in your life to purposes that are bigger than anything personal. After your commitment, for two decades, to end world hunger, a new commitment emerged in your life that I learned surprised you. You weren\u2019t expecting it. And the story of how that happened is, dare I say, mind blowing. I wonder if you can share it with our listeners.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>LT: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I would love to, thank you. Well, I was very, very deeply engaged and committed to the Hunger Project and had a role as the chief fundraiser for the entire world. So I managed fundraising operations in 53 countries and I also was very engaged in Sub-Saharan Africa. All the countries in Sub-Saharan Africa, Burkina Faso, Ethiopia, Ghana, Senegal, Zambia, Zimbabwe, places like that, Namibia, and also the subcontinent of Asia: India, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka. I had responsibility for hundreds of thousands of volunteers. I mean they didn\u2019t directly report to me, but I was in charge of our volunteer network, which was hundreds and hundreds of thousands of people, and then raising hundreds of millions of dollars. So I was very, very, very busy, I had my hands full and I had three kids and my plate was overflowing. So I thought I\u2019d do that for the rest of my life, there wasn\u2019t a free second. And then a large donor and friend of mine\u2014and his name is Bob\u2014had a project in Guatemala. We at the Hunger Project weren\u2019t working in Guatemala or South America at all. We were working in Asia and Africa at the time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He said, \u201cI have a pet project, an organization I started in Guatemala and we love the way the Hunger Project fundraising is designed and it\u2019s so heartful and not manipulative. I want you to train my development director. I want you to come to Guatemala and, with some of our donors, train my development director. You could take a two-week break, a little bit of a leave. I\u2019ll make sure all your targets are met, my financial targets.\u201d Which was a little bit of a bribe, but I accepted it willingly. OK, yay. So he made a very large contribution. So I went to Guatemala. I went with John Perkins, and I don\u2019t know if you\u2019ve interviewed John. John\u2019s an extraordinary guy who was in the Peace Corps in the 60s and got very involved with Indigenous people in Ecuador, the Ecuadorian Amazon with the Shuar people, and he became a trained shaman himself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So we are in Guatemala, John and I coleading a group of donors for our mutual friend Bob, and we realized there\u2019s a shaman involved in these Mayan projects. But the shaman is not part of any of our meetings and we don\u2019t know who he is, and people kind of won\u2019t talk about the shaman isn\u2019t part of this. So John, whose instincts were, let\u2019s see if we can have a meeting with this guy. Eventually we\u2014through a lot of very magical things that I\u2019ll skip\u2014we ended up with 12 of us on a mesa in the mountains of Guatemala with this remarkable Mayan shaman named Roberto Pose. I\u2019ll never forget this, man. And John Perkins, my dear friend, knew a lot about shamanism and he spoke Spanish fluently and a little bit of Mayan, enough to kind of translate for the shaman Roberto Pose, who spoke only Mayan. So the shaman asked us to meet him at midnight\u2014that\u2019s when we were starting the ceremony, at midnight\u2014on this mesa of this mountaintop in near Totonicap\u00e1n, Chichicastenango area of Guatemala, for people who\u2019ve been there.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So we\u2019re in a very rural [area], no lights anywhere around us, and we arrive at this place on the map that he drew for us. There\u2019s a big fire and a very, very brilliant starlit sky. I mean a million stars, it was so clear and gorgeous, it was just breathtaking. You could practically read from the stars, and there was no moon. There\u2019s this fire, and the shaman asks us to lie down around the fire with our feet towards the fire. So we made a kind of wagon wheel around this fire, and he told us to lie down. This is all through John\u2019s kind of rough translation. And so we do, and John and the shaman begin to chant and drum. John had the drum and the shaman starts chanting and this drum and this whistling and chanting, and this guy had the most mesmerizing voice, I mean just incredible, and his whistling. It was transporting. He told us to journey, and I had no idea what he meant by that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But I kind of thought that meant go to sleep and have a dream because it was midnight, why not? But it didn\u2019t happen like that. His voice and the drum and the whistling and the chanting and the night air and the crackling fire and the incredible experience of the stars overhead was just hypnotic, and I started to have a quiver in my right arm. It started to tremble, and I had this experience that I absolutely had to extend my right arm and it started shaking and it became so much larger and felt like this giant wing. Then my left arm started to quiver and I couldn\u2019t have held it close to my body for one more second, and I had to extend that. And then this sort of strange hard thing started growing on my face, which I realized was a beak. And then I had to fly. I could not lay there for one more second.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I had to lift my body up in slow motion with these huge amazing wings that had grown on my body. I started to lift myself up to the starry sky that was so glorious, I flew up toward the stars. At a certain point I looked down and there I was, down below still with all the other people around the fire and the shaman\u2019s voice, his whistling and the drumming was still very, very present right in my ear. I wasn\u2019t somehow far away from that, but I was way up in the sky and I was in a state of enormous bliss. And then, at a certain point, I looked down. Because it started to dawn and I looked down and I was flying in slow motion, this beautiful experience of flight over a vast unending forest of green that went forever and ever and ever and ever. It was magnificent and beautiful and breathtaking. As I\u2019m flying over this vast forest, I look down and I have this amazing, acute vision.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can see all the way down to the forest floor if I focus. I can see little critters, but if I lift up my head and look ahead I can see very, very far. So I\u2019m having this experience of absolute nirvana, some amazing peace and bliss. Then these disembodied faces of men with orange geometric face paint on their faces started floating with yellow, red, and black feather crowns on their heads. These disembodied faces of men started floating up from the forest floor through the canopy up to the bird, to me, calling in a strange tongue, like a plaintive kind of call, beautiful and also hypnotic. Then they disappeared down into the forest and I just kept flying and then, maybe a minute later&#8230; There was no time. So just then it would happen again. They would come up, float up and call to the bird, the disembodied faces of men with their headdresses, and then they would fall down into the forest again and again. So it was in a language I didn\u2019t understand, but it was beautiful and it was magical and mystical, but it was real.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This really was what was so\u2014and then there was this loud bang, bang, bang, bang, bang, bang, bang, drumbeat, really loud. It startled me. I remember sitting up and opening my eyes and realized that I didn\u2019t have wings, I didn\u2019t have a beak, I was just me and this was this shaman, what he had produced or what he had made possible. And I looked across the circle and the fire was all gone. It was in embers. So it was very, very hard to see him, his face, he had face paint on too. And there was no medicine in any of this, just his voice and the drum and John. So then he asked for what happened, and we went around the circle and every single person shared that they become an animal, including me. And then, at the end of the ritual, he completed it and everybody left on the little minibus. But he asked John and I to stay.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">John had had very much the same vision. Even though he was part of the ceremony, he also had a vision very similar. And so the shaman said, \u201cYou need to go to these people. This was not a vision, this was a communication. You\u2019re being called and you need to go to these people.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And I didn\u2019t know what he was talking about and John knew immediately. He said, \u201cLynne, I know who they are, I know where they are. I recognize the face paint, I recognize the crowns. It\u2019s the Achuar in Ecuador. I was just with the Shuar. The Achuar came into our camp, they\u2019re seeking first contact. They\u2019ve been dreaming, they\u2019re trying to dream people to them. That\u2019s how they communicate. They want to bring some people from the modern world to them for first contact, they want to initiate contact. This is that.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I said, \u201cNo way, John. I mean, it\u2019s not that I don\u2019t believe you. I can\u2019t go to the Amazon, I don\u2019t know anything about the Amazon. I don\u2019t speak Spanish. I\u2019m ending world hunger, I have a meeting in Ghana next week. You go, I bless you. Go, thank God. But I can\u2019t do that, that\u2019s not my work.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He said, \u201cThey won\u2019t leave you alone till you come.\u201d Like a warning, and I kind of got mad at him. I thought this is just too much for me, so I left. It was amazing and really inspiring. But I finished the trip and I went to Ghana for a board meeting for the Ghanaian Hunger Project. And I\u2019m in the Novotel in Accra, Ghana, on the ground floor in the small meeting room with five men and three women, five men and three women in the conference room. And the Ghanaian people have very blue-black skin. It\u2019s so dark, it\u2019s almost blue-black, beautiful, beautiful people. And they were having their Ghanaian Hunger Project board meeting and I was sitting in from the global office, so I wasn\u2019t leading the meeting. So this meeting\u2019s happening, it\u2019s very powerful dialogue, and at a certain point the men, only the men, started having orange geometric face paint appear on their blue-black faces, and no one says anything about it. So I think I must be hallucinating.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So I excuse myself and go to the ladies\u2019 room, like us ladies do whenever possible. When you don\u2019t know what to do, you go to the ladies\u2019 room. I splashed water on my face. Then I went back and sat down again and everybody was normal and they\u2019re still talking. Then five minutes, 10 minutes later, it happened again. Orange geometric face paint just appeared on the faces of the men. I burst into tears and everybody, including the men, you know, \u201cWhat\u2019s wrong?\u201d And I realized nobody else saw this but me. So I said, \u201cWell, I\u2019m feeling very, very ill. I\u2019m so sorry I can\u2019t stay, please just keep going on with your meeting. I\u2019m going to go up to my room, pack my bag and go straight to the airport. I\u2019ve been in too many time zones, too much travel, I can\u2019t stay. I was going to stay for five days, but I\u2019m too sick I\u2019m going to go home.\u201d And they all were very worried, but I made them stay there and I went up packed my bag, went to the Accra airport, got the first plane to Europe.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Which was to Frankfurt, New York, New York, San Francisco, and finally got home and the whole way, whether my eyes were open or shut, the faces just kept coming. So when I got home, I was just frantic and a mess and a wreck, actually. I told Bill I was having these weird dreams and I didn\u2019t tell him like I\u2019m telling you, because I thought there was something wrong with me. I was embarrassed. Then I tried to reach John Perkins and he was back in the Amazon, so I couldn\u2019t reach him. So I sent him a million faxes, that\u2019s what we could do, and voicemails. That\u2019s all we could do, this is 1994. Eventually he came back and he called me right away and he said, \u201cThey\u2019re waiting for us, Lynne. We have to go. We need to take 10 other people, 12 of us altogether. It\u2019s an incredible privilege to be first contact. It almost never happens. We have to go.\u201d So I took another leave, I invited Bill, my husband, he didn\u2019t want to go. He had sailing regattas and business deals and everything.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I made him come and he came and we went down to Quito, down the valley volcanoes over the eastern side of the Andes. The 12 of us took small planes, one, three at a time, into the Achuar territory, which is roadless and pristine. Eventually we all were there, and they came out of the forest with their orange geometric face paint, their yellow, red, and feather crowns and spears, loaded us and our gear into canoes, and took us to a clearing where we camped. And we began our relationship with the Achuar people of Ecuador, which became the beginning of the Pachamama Alliance. Pachamama meaning Mother Earth, and Alliance between the Indigenous people of the Amazon. Now 30 indigenous groups and conscious, committed people in the modern world, like all the listeners of Sound True, for the sustainability of life. And just one more brief thing. I was still in charge of all this stuff at the Hunger Project and then, now we had this thing happening in the Amazon, and it really became a partnership like nothing I\u2019d ever known before in my life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So I tried to do Pachamama Alliance and the Hunger Project and then thank God&#8230; I don\u2019t recommend this, but I got malaria from Ethiopia actually and India. I got two strains at the same time and it just felled me. It took me down for nine months. So I couldn\u2019t do anything for anyone, and that was my quiet time to realize that God, the universe, the natural world, the mother, the greater, the divine, wanted me to&#8230; I had a second chapter in my life, I was 50 years old, something new was calling me. So the Hunger Project, in nine months of my illness, was able to replace me and Bill, and I started the Pachamama Alliance. That\u2019s long, but that\u2019s it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>TS: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s such a dramatic story, Lynne, of this being called and then answering the call and then having the breakdown you had with the malaria illness that allowed for the breakthrough of you to commit to the work of the Pachamama Alliance. I\u2019m wondering for someone right now who\u2019s listening who says, I\u2019ve never felt a call with that kind of drama and, kind of, it\u2019s indisputable. I\u2019ve never felt like the Earth or a group was interfering with my visions, I\u2019ve never had that kind of thing. How would you suggest they hear the call in their life? Because it seems like you believe everyone does have a call.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>LT: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes. Well in retrospect, it all sounds so almost like a movie or something, but it was so confusing and it wasn\u2019t so obvious to me then, and it sounds so wonderful. So it is the stuff of a book my life. At the same time, I want to say that it\u2019s my view, as you said, that everybody who\u2019s born today has a role to play. I really believe that. I can\u2019t prove it, but it\u2019s such an epic time in human history. I mean it\u2019s epic, everything\u2019s epic. All the breakdowns are epic, the challenges are epic, the darkness is epic. The possibility is also epic though. So I feel that it\u2019s one of the reasons I wrote this book, is that if you really think about it there\u2019s a through line in your life. Not just you, Tami Simon, which I know you\u2019re probably very aware of. Everyone is, because we love you and Sounds True so much and you make so much available. I want to say a lot about that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But there\u2019s a through line, we look back at when we were little, and if you were the person who, on the kickball team, chose the best player first, you\u2019re one kind of person. If you picked the person who was the worst player first, then maybe that\u2019s a sign that you\u2019re all about justice and social justice and making sure everybody has a chance. Maybe that\u2019s your commitment and that\u2019s a calling and you\u2019ve always kind of been that like that, and then you kind of formalize it by making a commitment to live the rest of your life with more emphasis on that. Or maybe you\u2019ve always been someone, since you were little, who was drawn to trees, to sit under them, to protect them, to know about them. Then maybe you got involved in forestry and then you realize that you want to be involved in protecting the forest. People if they look at their life, who are your heroes and heroines all the way through your life? Those things give you clues to what\u2019s yours to do, and I say that we all have a role to play.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When I say that it\u2019s not a big role or a small role, it\u2019s just your role and if you play it, your life will have a kind of meaning and freedom and fulfillment that you\u2019ve dreamed of. It takes just being conscious and paying attention to things. One way, when I\u2019m working with people directly on this, I sometimes ask them what breaks your heart? That\u2019s a clue. What breaks your heart? Not just touches your heart, breaks your heart. And then what calls to you, that you\u2019re drawn to, that you feel it has to do with this part of our anatomy. It has to do with being more than doing. But usually there\u2019s a through line and lots of times it\u2019s many things. Maybe it\u2019s just being a unconditionally loving kindergarten teacher that every child that comes into your kindergarten, you have a commitment to see and really mirror back to them their own magnificence in a way that they never forget that for the rest of their life. It doesn\u2019t need to be ending world hunger.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I tell the story about a bus driver that really impacted my husband when he was in business school. He always wanted to get on this guy\u2019s bus because this guy was committed to having everybody on his bus have a good day. If you took the 39 from this place or wherever you were to the end of the line or anywhere along the way, you got Joe the bus driver and it was a good day for you because you got on his bus. It\u2019s available to all of us. And there\u2019s clues in your life and only you can see them if you awaken yourself to see, yes there\u2019s something that I\u2019m here for and I\u2019m going to find out what it is and I\u2019m going to do it with all my heart.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>TS: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lynne, as we come to a conclusion I\u2019m just going to make a circle back to where we began about your superpower of being a possibilitarian. You write, \u201cThe greatest threat to creating the future we want is fear, discouragement, and cynicism. It\u2019s easy to be cynical, it\u2019s easy and cheap because it asks nothing of us. Cynicism is like a disease, an infection, and it\u2019s cowardly. What takes courage is to hold a vision and live into it.\u201d I\u2019m coming back to this note because I think sometimes people think cynicism is a form of intelligence, something like that. Look, I read the news, I\u2019m aware, I\u2019m intelligent, of course I\u2019m cynical. And the statement of yours, \u201cIt\u2019s easy and cheap because it asks nothing of us.\u201d I found that quite searing, and I wonder if you can make a comment about that here at the end.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>LT: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, I don\u2019t want to insult people who think they might be cynical. I just want to invite you to consider giving more of yourself, because it gives you permission to withhold. And I think we\u2019re all needed now. We\u2019re needed to step up, and you called me a possibilitarian. I like that. The possiblelist, I got that from Frankie Lapp\u00e9, Frances Moore Lapp\u00e9, she calls herself a possiblelist. I don\u2019t think everybody needs to be like me. I really want to make sure I say that, and there are things that are really dark and I don\u2019t step over them. I\u2019m not Pollyanna. I worked on poverty and hunger, I worked with Mother Theresa. I\u2019ve held lepers in my arms, I\u2019ve held dead babies in my arms. So I know about the darkness and I\u2019m not afraid of it. So I don\u2019t step over that. I want to make sure I say that. I also know that we\u2019re in a time when&#8230; There\u2019s another quote I\u2019m going to use from somebody I think you\u2019ve interviewed, Michael Beckwith. He says, \u201cPain pushes until vision pulls. Pain pushes until vision pulls.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And pain does push us, but you can\u2019t get out of it without a vision to pull you through. And we all have a role to play, and maybe some people\u2019s role is to point to the pain. Maybe I\u2019m missing something here. I do point to the pain, but I also know where I\u2019m committed because I\u2019m a pro-activist. I call myself a pro-activist, not an activist, because I\u2019m an activist <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">for<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, not against, and I\u2019m committed to pulling people through the pain into their vision, because that\u2019s where I stand and I know that works. So even the things that many people are against, I see them. I want to hospice their natural death with some respect and dignity. Respect comes from re-see, re-spectate, re-look and they\u2019ll die faster. I don\u2019t attack. I think I have found that to be enormously effective, it takes a lot of patience, generosity, and kindness. But it\u2019s good for me to be that way and it actually is very practical.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So pain pushes until vision pulls and I have a muscle that I\u2019ve developed to help people see the vision, to pull them through the pain, and it\u2019s a privilege to do it and it\u2019s a joy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>TS: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just one final follow up here. Because as part of your vision you mentioned the metaphor of here we are, we\u2019re pregnant. We\u2019re pregnant with a new human, a new way of being together as a species, a new Earth. What is it that we\u2019re pregnant with? What\u2019s the vision, Lynne?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>LT: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0I wish I knew exactly. I mean in the Pachamama Alliance, the organization that came from that big shift in my life, we say our work is to bring forth an environmentally sustainable, spiritually fulfilling, socially just human presence on this planet. That\u2019s a pretty good definition of a new kind of human being, a new kind of humanity. Environmentally sustainable, environmentally generative, really, socially just and spiritually fulfilled humanity. A humanity that understands its role in the community of life. A humanity that\u2019s committed to ending human supremacy in its ugliness, when it\u2019s domineering and crushing other species and other forms of life. A human family that finds its role, its place in the beauty and unfolding story of the universe. And I have a great trust in that. I know there\u2019s people who think we\u2019re going extinct. I know that we are useful, our species is important on this planet.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We\u2019ve kind of overtaken things, so we\u2019re a little bit way out of line. But we have a contribution to make and we belong here and what is our role now, in the next 100 years? This is the first century of the third millennium. If you think of it that way, what is our species going to establish as our role in the next millennium? Are we going to continue to destroy everything around us? Or are we going to play the kind of role that I think is getting born in us. Which is to be earthlings, you could say, global citizens, universal humans, that are rooted in the power of our humanity and the incredible, infinite power of unconditional love, generosity, kindness, reciprocity, and what I wrote about in my last book, sufficiency. Enoughness. Gandhi, said, \u201cThere\u2019s enough for our need but not for our greed.\u201d We need to get ourselves there so we realize that. And I think we\u2019re on our way there, and this is a technical or surround-sound expression of how off we are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Which is helpful, in its ugly way, to wake us up and get us on track and have us be reborn. So that\u2019s the best I can do right now. Whatever it is we\u2019re pregnant with, I want us to do everything we can to have a beautiful new kind of human being be born out of all this chaos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>TS: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve been speaking with Lynne Twist, she\u2019s the author of the new book, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Living A Committed Life: Finding Freedom and Fulfillment in a Purpose Larger Than Yourself<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. If you\u2019d like to watch <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Insights at the Edge<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on video and participate in after-the-show Q&amp;A conversations with featured presenters and have the chance to ask your questions, come join us on Sounds True One, a new membership community that features premium shows, live classes, and community events. Let\u2019s learn and grow together. Come join us at join.soundstrue.com. 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