This is your gift to the world

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September 7, 2013

The fear of being abandoned. The terror of being lonely forever. The anxiety of being utterly dependent upon another. The panic of unbearable vulnerability and exposure. The dread of the looming death of yourself and everyone around you. These are the great fears that come as you wake, as you fall asleep, and as you dream through this life.

But perhaps the greatest fear of all is the fear of being loved. We don’t really see it this way, though. For when you are really loved, when you are entirely seen, when you are fully held, it is the end of your world as you know it. You will never be the same. You will never again be able to pretend that you are other than perfect and precious as you are. And that is terrifying.

Life is always seeing you in this way.

You long to be loved, to be seen, but please know that the implications are immense; they are cosmic. To allow yourself to be loved in this way a part of you must die. Everything you thought you weren’t must be surrendered. You must let go of the stories of the unlovable one, the awakened one, the special one, the imperfect one, and the despairing one. Love wishes to reveal your nakedness, to remove your clothing, and to burn away all that is false and less than whole within you. What you are is a raging firestorm of creativity, sensuality, openness, warmth, and kindness. Love will never stop until you know this.

In this way, love is a destructive process, for it comes to re-order everything you thought you knew. But will you step into this sweet annihilation? Yes, something will be shattered; actually, everything will be taken away. All that will be left is your wholeness and your raw, tender heart. This is your gift to this world.

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Six Summer Reads You Won’t Want to Miss!

After the stillness of winter and the slow waking of spring, summer is a time for getting up, getting out, and getting our hands on what inspires us the most. Here are some recent Sounds True releases for tapping into a life well lived.

1. The Biophilia Effect – Clemens G. Arvay 

Summer Super Sale - The Biophilia Effect

This is a book that celebrates our interconnection with nature and shows how to deeply engage the natural world wherever you live to dramatically improve your health. Clemens G. Arvay presents fascinating research, practical tools and activities,

inspiring stories, and more in this accessible guide to the remarkable benefits of being in nature.

Get it here: https://www.soundstrue.com/store/the-biophilia-effect.html

 

 

 

 

2. The Healing Code of Nature – Clemens G. Arvay

The Healing Code of Nature - Clemens G. Arvay

Human beings are inseparable from the natural world, coevolving with all of life. In order to thrive, we need to nourish this bond. In his latest book, biologist Clemens G. Arvay illuminates the miraculous ways that the human body interprets the living “code” of plants, animals, and our larger natural habitat for healing and sustenance.

Get it here: https://www.soundstrue.com/store/the-healing-code-of-nature.html

 

 

 

 

 

3. Book of Beasties – Sarah Seidelman

Summer Super Sale - Book of Beasties

From an ancient perspective, everything—including all natural things, like rocks, flowers, trees, insects, birds, and mammals

—is alive and infused with conscious energy or spirit,” writes Sarah Seidelmann. If you’re one of the many people looking to reconnect with the creativity, wisdom, and vital energy of the natural world, here is a fantastic guide for tapping into the power of animal totems, or “beasties.”

Get it here: https://www.soundstrue.com/store/book-of-beasties.html

 

 

 

4. No Recipe – Edward Espe Brown

Summer Super Sale - No RecipeMaking your love manifest, transforming your spirit, good heart, and able hands into food is a great undertaking,” writes renowned chef and Zen priest Edward Espe Brown, “one that will nourish you in the doing, in the offering, and in the eating.” With No Recipe: Cooking as Spiritual Practice, Brown beautifully blends expert cooking advice with thoughtful reflections on meaning, joy, and life itself.

Get it here: https://www.soundstrue.com/store/no-recipe.html

 

 

 

 

5. Yoga Friends – Mariam Gates & Rolf Gates 

Summer Super Sale - Yoga FriendsFrom the creators of Good Night Yoga and Good Morning Yoga comes a beautifully illustrated city adventure that introduces children to the delights and benefits of partner yoga.

Perfect for teaming up with a friend, sibling, parent, or caregiver, each easy practice shows how cooperation helps us to imagine, move, and have fun in a whole new way.

Includes a back-page guide for parents and caregivers, showing how to do each pose and how to connect them into an easy-to-follow flow.

Get it here: https://www.soundstrue.com/store/yoga-friends.html

 

6. Happier Now – Nataly Kogan

Summer Super Sale - Happier Now

What if you could be happier, right now, without radically changing your life? As nationally recognized happiness expert Nataly Kogan teaches, happiness is not a nice feeling or a frivolous extra. It’s a critical, non-negotiable ingredient for living a fulfilling, meaningful, and healthy life—and it’s a skill that we can all learn and improve through practice. In Happier Now, Nataly shares an illuminating, inspiring, and science-based guide to help you build your happier skills and live with more joy, starting now.

Get it here: https://www.soundstrue.com/store/happier-now.html

 

 

 

 

 

Have other books you’ve read by the poolside or under a shade tree ended up changing the way you see the world? Tell us about those summer reads that ended up being more than you expected!

 

Singing Bowl Meditation Sounds True Spotify Playlist

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Need some tunes for rest and relaxation? Check out our Singing Bowl Meditation Playlist! A variety of artists who make a soothing mix of infinite rhythms using Tibetan singing bowls. Perfect throughout a meditative practice.

 

November New Releases and Giveaway

NOVEMBER NEW RELEASES

 

 

The Integrity Advantage by Kelly Kosow

Are you ready to open up to new levels of self-trust and self-love, to get where you want to go?

You vowed to speak up at work, and then sat silent in the meeting yet again.

You told yourself “this time the diet is going to stick,” only to watch the scale inching up.

You felt that something just wasn’t right about someone that—until you learned the hard way that your instincts were right.

“Every time you bite your tongue,” teaches Kelley Kosow, “you swallow your integrity.”

Before Kelley Kosow was a renowned life coach and CEO, she constantly second-guessed herself, let her “to-do” lists and others steer her dreams and passions, and played it “small and safe.”

Inspired by the groundbreaking principles of her renowned mentor Debbie Ford, who hand-picked Kelley to be her successor, The Integrity Advantage is Kelley’s step-by-step guide for facing the fear, shame, and false beliefs that cause us to lose our way.

Through life-changing insights, true stories, and proven strategies, this book will show you how to live on your own terms—according to you—from the inside out.

 

Daring to Rest by Karen Brody

As modern women, we’re taught that we can do it all, have it all, and be it all. While this freedom is beautiful, it’s also exhausting. Being a “worn-out woman” is now so common that we think feeling tired all the time is normal. According to Karen Brody, feeling this exhausted is not normal—and it’s holding us back. In Daring to Rest, Brody comes to the rescue with a 40-day program to help you reclaim rest and access your most powerful, authentic self through yoga nidra, a meditative practice that guides you into one of the deepest states of relaxation imaginable.

It’s time to lie down and begin the journey to waking up

 

 

 

 

Breathe and Be by Anna Emilia Laitinen and Kate Coombs

Teaching mindfulness helps kids learn to stay calm, regulate their emotions, and appreciate the world around them. With Breathe and Be, author Kate Coombs and illustrator Anna Emilia Laitinen team up to present a book of poetry and art for young readers to make mindfulness easy, natural, and beautiful. Here is a book sure to delight parents and kids alike, blending lovingly illustrated nature imagery with elegant verse about living with awareness and inner peace.

 

 

 

 

Leopard Warrior by John Lockley

A Teaching Memoir That Crosses the Barriers Between Worlds

A shaman is one who has learned to move between two worlds: our physical reality and the realm of spirits. For John Lockley, shamanic training also meant learning to cross the immense divide of race and culture in South Africa.

As a medic drafted into the South African military in 1990, John Lockley had a powerful dream. “Even though I am a white man of Irish and English descent, I knew in my bones that I had received my calling to become a sangoma, a traditional South African shaman,” John writes. “I felt blessed by the ancient spirit of Africa, and I knew that I had started on a journey filled with magic and danger.” His path took him from the hills of South Korea, where he trained as a student under Zen Master Su Bong, to the rural African landscape of the Eastern Cape and the world of the sangoma mystic healers, where he found his teacher in the medicine woman called MaMngwev

 

 

Things That Join the Sea and the Sky by Mark Nepo

A Reader for Navigating the Depths of Our Lives

The Universe holds us and tosses us about, only to hold us again. With Things That Join the Sea and the Sky, Mark Nepo brings us a compelling treasury of short prose reflections to turn to when struggling to keep our heads above water, and to breathe into all of our sorrows and joys.

Inspired by his own journal writing across 15 years, this book shares with us some of Mark’s most personal work. Many passages arise from accounts of his own life events—moments of “sinking and being lifted”—and the insights they yielded. Through these passages, we’re encouraged to navigate our own currents of sea and sky, and to discover something fundamental yet elusive: How, simply, to be here.

To be enjoyed in many ways—individually, by topic, or as an unfolding sequence—Things That Join the Sea and the Sky presents 145 contemplations gathered into 17 themes, each intended to illuminate specific situations.

 

 

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Much of this inquiry lives at the heart of the teachings and programs we carry in our Meditation & Mindfulness collection, where we gather practical guidance for cultivating presence and self-awareness across many traditions.

How Meditation Works According to Shinzen Young

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Shinzen has shared many of these ideas through conversations on our Insights at the Edge Podcast, where wisdom teachers break down the mechanics of mindfulness in ways that feel grounded, lived, and real.

What the Algorithm Does

The word “algorithm” can sound technical, but Shinzen uses it to mean something very human: a clear, repeatable process for working with experience. Just as a recipe breaks cooking into steps, his mindfulness algorithm breaks awareness down into observable parts that anyone can practice.

Here is a practical example: someone sits with a wave of anxiety. Rather than labeling it broadly as “stress,” Shinzen’s system guides them to notice where the feeling lives in the body, whether mental imagery is attached to it, and what internal dialogue surrounds it. That level of precision transforms an overwhelming experience into something workable. 

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Sensory Clarity, Concentration, and Equanimity as Core Mindfulness Skills

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Concentration

Concentration is the capacity to direct and sustain attention. This skill allows practitioners to stay present with experience rather than drifting into mental commentary. A meditator who keeps returning gently to a breath sensation, again and again, is building this capacity in real time.

Equanimity

Equanimity is the ability to allow experiences to come and go without resistance. This does not mean becoming passive or indifferent. It is a quality of openness that can be felt when someone sits with discomfort without needing to fix or escape it immediately. A practitioner who meets an uncomfortable emotion with steadiness rather than reactivity is practicing equanimity in action.

Applying Unified Mindfulness in Everyday Life

One of the most compelling aspects of Shinzen’s work is how applicable it is beyond the meditation cushion. The principles of unified mindfulness can be practiced during conversations, in professional settings, during family interactions, and in moments of everyday stress.

Mindfulness in Difficult Conversations

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Stress as a Practice Ground

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Awareness in Ordinary Moments

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Final Thoughts

Shinzen Young’s approach shows that mindfulness does not have to stay abstract or mysterious. By seeing how meditation works through the lens of the science of enlightenment, practitioners gain practical tools for navigating their inner world with greater awareness. Through sensory clarity, concentration, and equanimity, unified mindfulness offers a clear path toward untangling habitual patterns and cultivating greater freedom in everyday life. 

We are honored to carry Shinzen Young’s teachings as part of our living library at Sounds True, and we invite you to find the path that speaks to you. 

Frequently Asked Questions About Shinzen Young’s Algorithmic Approach to Mindfulness

Who is Shinzen Young?

Shinzen Young is a mindfulness teacher, meditation researcher, and author known for combining contemplative traditions with scientific language and practical meditation techniques.

What makes Shinzen Young’s teachings different from other mindfulness approaches?

His teachings emphasize precise observation of experience and use structured methods that help practitioners identify and work with thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations in real time.

Is Shinzen Young’s mindfulness algorithm based on a specific spiritual tradition?

His approach draws from several contemplative traditions, including Buddhist practices, while presenting mindfulness in a way that is accessible to people from diverse backgrounds and belief systems.

Can beginners practice Shinzen Young’s mindfulness methods?

Yes. His framework is designed to be approachable for beginners while offering enough depth to support experienced meditators seeking a more refined practice.

Why does Shinzen Young use scientific language when discussing meditation?

Scientific language helps make mindfulness concepts easier to understand, measure, and communicate for people who prefer practical explanations over philosophical descriptions.

Can mindfulness help with stress management?

Many practitioners use mindfulness to better understand their reactions to stress. Increased awareness can create more space between challenging situations and habitual responses.

What role does curiosity play in mindfulness practice?

Curiosity encourages practitioners to investigate experience openly rather than judging or resisting it. This attitude often supports deeper insight and learning.

Michelle Cassandra Johnson is an author, activist, spiritual teacher, racial equity consultant, and intuitive healer. She is the author of six books, including Skill in Action and Finding Refuge. Amy Burtaine is a leadership coach and racial equity trainer. With Robin DiAngelo, she is the coauthor of The Facilitator's Guide for White Affinity Groups. For more, visit https://www.michellecjohnson.com/wisdom-of-the-hive.

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Who Was Robert Thurman?

Thurman was ordained by the Dalai Lama in 1965, becoming the first Western Tibetan Buddhist monk, before later disrobing, marrying, and raising a family while continuing his scholarship. He earned a PhD in Sanskrit and Indo-Tibetan studies from Harvard in 1972 and went on to hold the Jey Tsong Khapa Professorship at Columbia, the first endowed Buddhist studies chair in the West. He also co-founded Tibet House US to help preserve Tibetan culture and teaching.

Over the course of his career, Thurman authored and translated nearly twenty works, including original texts on Tibetan philosophy that introduced Buddhist psychology to readers with no prior background in the tradition. His writing built a bridge that made these teachings widely accessible to Western minds.

His voice is among the many remarkable teachers we are honored to carry. Alongside Thurman, you can learn from a wide range of wisdom teachers through our All Teachers & Authors, where lineage and lived teaching come together in one place.

What Sunyata Really Means 

Thurman’s doctoral dissertation focused on Sunyata, the Sanskrit term usually translated as emptiness, and he spent much of his career correcting a common misreading. In his teachings, emptiness does not mean nothingness or absence. Instead, the concept points to the truth that nothing exists independently, that everything, including the self, arises through relationship and interdependence. 

Where Emptiness Meets Suchness

In Tibetan Buddhism, sunyata and suchness, called tathata in the tradition, are two ways of pointing at the same truth. 

Emptiness names the absence of fixed, independent existence. Suchness names what that freedom reveals: the world as it actually is, vivid, present, and unobstructed by our projections onto it. Thurman illustrated this with everyday examples rather than abstract philosophy, arguing that once people grasp interdependence, rigid ideas about identity and separation soften on their own.

This is also where emptiness opens into possibility. Nothing is fixed, and nothing is closed off from change. The same conditions that make our habits feel permanent are the very conditions that make genuine growth accessible.

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How Inner Revolution Leads to Compassion 

In his most widely read work, Thurman argued for what he called the inner revolution, the idea that cultivating inner freedom is a direct challenge to materialism and oppression, not a private retreat from them. He positioned enlightenment as an active force in the world, not a personal achievement disconnected from politics or society.

The thread back to sunyata and emptiness is direct. When the illusion of a fixed, separate self begins to loosen, compassion arises in its place. On compassion, the Dalai Lama and Thurman were in full agreement: recognizing our shared interdependence is not a comfort. That recognition becomes a responsibility, one that asks us to re-enter the world with clearer eyes and a more open heart.

Living These Teachings Every Day

The practices Thurman introduced to Western readers have always been meant as lived tools, not only as philosophical frameworks. Tibetan Buddhism has long emphasized direct application: how we meet conflict, face uncertainty, and remain present even when things feel fixed and unresolvable. 

A daily sitting practice, even a brief one, can become the space for noticing when the grip of a fixed identity tightens and gently releasing it. Contemplative inquiry, the simple act of resting with a question without immediately grasping for an answer, mirrors what Thurman described as the fruit, or the meat, of emptiness work.

Those ready to bring this kind of practice into daily life will find our Meditation & Mindfulness collection brings together programs from teachers who have spent years making these ideas deeply livable.

Honoring His Academic and Cultural Legacy

Beyond his own writing, Thurman’s influence shows up in the institutions and honors that followed him. 

Time named him one of the twenty-five most influential Americans in 1997, and in 2020, he received India’s Padma Shri Award, one of the country’s highest civilian honors, for his contributions to education and literature. Also, The New York Times described him as the leading interpreter of Tibetan Buddhism in the West, a reputation built through his classroom teaching at Columbia. He also served as editor of the Treasury of the Buddhist Sciences series, overseeing scholarly translations meant to outlast any single career.

Likewise, his teachings on the bardo, the Tibetan concept for the states of consciousness encountered between one experience and the next, are among his most powerful contributions. His recording on liberation upon hearing in the between draws from this tradition, reminding practitioners that presence is possible even in the most disorienting transitions of everyday life. Anyone deepening a mindfulness practice will find these teachings open a doorway worth stepping through.

Conversations on lineage, lived practice, and the teachers who carry wisdom forward are part of what we explore on our Insights at the Edge Podcast. Those drawn to the broader tradition Thurman spent his life explaining will find our Spirituality & Awakening collection holds courses and programs rooted in similar questions about consciousness, interdependence, and meaning.

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Final Thoughts

Robert Thurman’s work asked readers to take an unfamiliar idea seriously enough to let it change how they saw themselves and their relationships to everyone around them. Emptiness, in his hands, became less an abstract puzzle and more an invitation toward compassion grounded in interdependence.

At Sounds True, our mission has always been to wake up the world. The teachers we carry, Thurman among them, offer a portal to presence through teachings that are both ancient and immediately relevant. We are grateful to have shared in carrying his work forward, and we hope revisiting it here offers something worth sitting with.

Frequently Asked Questions About Robert Thurman

What does sunyata or emptiness mean in Tibetan Buddhism?

It refers to interdependence, the idea that nothing exists independently, rather than nothingness or absence.

What is Robert Thurman’s Inner Revolution about?

The work argues that personal spiritual transformation is a form of resistance to materialism and social oppression. Thurman believed that the inner work of loosening a fixed sense of self is what makes compassion and social engagement possible. 

What was Robert Thurman’s connection to the Dalai Lama?

They shared a close friendship spanning over fifty years, rooted in shared teaching and cultural advocacy work.

What is Robert Thurman best known for academically?

Holding Columbia’s first endowed Buddhist studies chair and translating major Tibetan texts into English.

Did Robert Thurman receive any major honors?

Yes, including Time’s list of influential Americans and India’s Padma Shri Award for education and literature.

Where can I learn more about Robert Thurman’s teachings?

Sounds True features books, podcasts, and programs from Robert Thurman and other respected Buddhist teachers.

Michelle Cassandra Johnson is an author, activist, spiritual teacher, racial equity consultant, and intuitive healer. She is the author of six books, including Skill in Action and Finding Refuge. Amy Burtaine is a leadership coach and racial equity trainer. With Robin DiAngelo, she is the coauthor of The Facilitator's Guide for White Affinity Groups. For more, visit https://www.michellecjohnson.com/wisdom-of-the-hive.

10 comments on This is your gift to the world

  1. Chris Duel says:

    Brilliant. True. Sublime.

    Matt, this is one of the most moving and evocative pieces I’ve read in a long time. I will share it around the web.

    Thanks.

    1. Matt Licata says:

      Thank you, Chris, for your kind words, and for sharing the journey with us. Lots of love…

  2. Nina says:

    This is a truly beautiful thought.
    It reminded me of a speech by George Saunders to graduating college students I saw posted in the NYtimes.

    Down through the ages, a traditional form has evolved for this type of speech, which is: Some old fart, his best years behind him, who, over the course of his life, has made a series of dreadful mistakes (that would be me), gives heartfelt advice to a group of shining, energetic young people, with all of their best years ahead of them (that would be you).

    And I intend to respect that tradition.

    Now, one useful thing you can do with an old person, in addition to borrowing money from them, or asking them to do one of their old-time “dances,” so you can watch, while laughing, is ask: “Looking back, what do you regret?” And they’ll tell you. Sometimes, as you know, they’ll tell you even if you haven’t asked. Sometimes, even when you’ve specifically requested they not tell you, they’ll tell you.

    So: What do I regret? Being poor from time to time? Not really. Working terrible jobs, like “knuckle-puller in a slaughterhouse?” (And don’t even ASK what that entails.) No. I don’t regret that. Skinny-dipping in a river in Sumatra, a little buzzed, and looking up and seeing like 300 monkeys sitting on a pipeline, pooping down into the river, the river in which I was swimming, with my mouth open, naked? And getting deathly ill afterwards, and staying sick for the next seven months? Not so much. Do I regret the occasional humiliation? Like once, playing hockey in front of a big crowd, including this girl I really liked, I somehow managed, while falling and emitting this weird whooping noise, to score on my own goalie, while also sending my stick flying into the crowd, nearly hitting that girl? No. I don’t even regret that.

    But here’s something I do regret:

    In seventh grade, this new kid joined our class. In the interest of confidentiality, her Convocation Speech name will be “ELLEN.” ELLEN was small, shy. She wore these blue cat’s-eye glasses that, at the time, only old ladies wore. When nervous, which was pretty much always, she had a habit of taking a strand of hair into her mouth and chewing on it.

    So she came to our school and our neighborhood, and was mostly ignored, occasionally teased (“Your hair taste good?” – that sort of thing). I could see this hurt her. I still remember the way she’d look after such an insult: eyes cast down, a little gut-kicked, as if, having just been reminded of her place in things, she was trying, as much as possible, to disappear. After awhile she’d drift away, hair-strand still in her mouth. At home, I imagined, after school, her mother would say, you know: “How was your day, sweetie?” and she’d say, “Oh, fine.” And her mother would say, “Making any friends?” and she’d go, “Sure, lots.”

    Sometimes I’d see her hanging around alone in her front yard, as if afraid to leave it.

    And then – they moved. That was it. No tragedy, no big final hazing.

    One day she was there, next day she wasn’t.

    End of story.

    Now, why do I regret that? Why, forty-two years later, am I still thinking about it? Relative to most of the other kids, I was actually pretty nice to her. I never said an unkind word to her. In fact, I sometimes even (mildly) defended her.

    But still. It bothers me.

    So here’s something I know to be true, although it’s a little corny, and I don’t quite know what to do with it:

    What I regret most in my life are failures of kindness.

    Those moments when another human being was there, in front of me, suffering, and I responded…sensibly. Reservedly. Mildly.

    Or, to look at it from the other end of the telescope: Who, in your life, do you remember most fondly, with the most undeniable feelings of warmth?

    Those who were kindest to you, I bet.

    It’s a little facile, maybe, and certainly hard to implement, but I’d say, as a goal in life, you could do worse than: Try to be kinder.

    Now, the million-dollar question: What’s our problem? Why aren’t we kinder?

    Here’s what I think:

    Each of us is born with a series of built-in confusions that are probably somehow Darwinian. These are: (1) we’re central to the universe (that is, our personal story is the main and most interesting story, the only story, really); (2) we’re separate from the universe (there’s US and then, out there, all that other junk – dogs and swing-sets, and the State of Nebraska and low-hanging clouds and, you know, other people), and (3) we’re permanent (death is real, o.k., sure – for you, but not for me).

    Now, we don’t really believe these things – intellectually we know better – but we believe them viscerally, and live by them, and they cause us to prioritize our own needs over the needs of others, even though what we really want, in our hearts, is to be less selfish, more aware of what’s actually happening in the present moment, more open, and more loving.

    So, the second million-dollar question: How might we DO this? How might we become more loving, more open, less selfish, more present, less delusional, etc., etc?

    Well, yes, good question.

    Unfortunately, I only have three minutes left.

    So let me just say this. There are ways. You already know that because, in your life, there have been High Kindness periods and Low Kindness periods, and you know what inclined you toward the former and away from the latter. Education is good; immersing ourselves in a work of art: good; prayer is good; meditation’s good; a frank talk with a dear friend; establishing ourselves in some kind of spiritual tradition – recognizing that there have been countless really smart people before us who have asked these same questions and left behind answers for us.

    Because kindness, it turns out, is hard – it starts out all rainbows and puppy dogs, and expands to include…well,everything.

    One thing in our favor: some of this “becoming kinder” happens naturally, with age. It might be a simple matter of attrition: as we get older, we come to see how useless it is to be selfish – how illogical, really. We come to love other people and are thereby counter-instructed in our own centrality. We get our butts kicked by real life, and people come to our defense, and help us, and we learn that we’re not separate, and don’t want to be. We see people near and dear to us dropping away, and are gradually convinced that maybe we too will drop away (someday, a long time from now). Most people, as they age, become less selfish and more loving. I think this is true. The great Syracuse poet, Hayden Carruth, said, in a poem written near the end of his life, that he was “mostly Love, now.”

    And so, a prediction, and my heartfelt wish for you: as you get older, your self will diminish and you will grow in love. YOU will gradually be replaced by LOVE. If you have kids, that will be a huge moment in your process of self-diminishment. You really won’t care what happens to YOU, as long as they benefit. That’s one reason your parents are so proud and happy today. One of their fondest dreams has come true: you have accomplished something difficult and tangible that has enlarged you as a person and will make your life better, from here on in, forever.

    Congratulations, by the way.

    When young, we’re anxious – understandably – to find out if we’ve got what it takes. Can we succeed? Can we build a viable life for ourselves? But you – in particular you, of this generation – may have noticed a certain cyclical quality to ambition. You do well in high-school, in hopes of getting into a good college, so you can do well in the good college, in the hopes of getting a good job, so you can do well in the good job so you can….

    And this is actually O.K. If we’re going to become kinder, that process has to include taking ourselves seriously – as doers, as accomplishers, as dreamers. We have to do that, to be our best selves.

    Still, accomplishment is unreliable. “Succeeding,” whatever that might mean to you, is hard, and the need to do so constantly renews itself (success is like a mountain that keeps growing ahead of you as you hike it), and there’s the very real danger that “succeeding” will take up your whole life, while the big questions go untended.

    So, quick, end-of-speech advice: Since, according to me, your life is going to be a gradual process of becoming kinder and more loving: Hurry up. Speed it along. Start right now. There’s a confusion in each of us, a sickness, really:selfishness. But there’s also a cure. So be a good and proactive and even somewhat desperate patient on your own behalf – seek out the most efficacious anti-selfishness medicines, energetically, for the rest of your life.

    Do all the other things, the ambitious things – travel, get rich, get famous, innovate, lead, fall in love, make and lose fortunes, swim naked in wild jungle rivers (after first having it tested for monkey poop) – but as you do, to the extent that you can, err in the direction of kindness. Do those things that incline you toward the big questions, and avoid the things that would reduce you and make you trivial. That luminous part of you that exists beyond personality – your soul, if you will – is as bright and shining as any that has ever been. Bright as Shakespeare’s, bright as Gandhi’s, bright as Mother Teresa’s. Clear away everything that keeps you separate from this secret luminous place. Believe it exists, come to know it better, nurture it, share its fruits tirelessly.

    And someday, in 80 years, when you’re 100, and I’m 134, and we’re both so kind and loving we’re nearly unbearable, drop me a line, let me know how your life has been. I hope you will say: It has been so wonderful.

    Congratulations, Class of 2013.

    I wish you great happiness, all the luck in the world, and a beautiful summer.

  3. Kristy says:

    This is beautiful. Simply. This is really worth sharing, thank you dearly.

    1. Matt Licata says:

      You’re welcome, Kristy. Thanks so much for stopping by. Take care…

  4. Pamela says:

    Just starting some work on trauma and what it has done to my life. I found your site through the books I have been buying on soundstrue.com. I bought the book, Waking the Tiger and the sequels to it. I am working with a psychologist with this whole process. Actually I am working with two psychologists. Your words are a great solace to my spirit as I am a spiritual being with God as my father. He truly cares for my soul. He truly loves us as the ones he created to be just exactly who we are. Love is my journey as I never had it growing up as a child and then a teenager. I love your words. ♥♥♥

    1. Matt Licata says:

      Thank you for sharing with us, Pamela, and for opening your heart here. As you have discovered, you are not alone. We look forward to more connection with you over the months and years to come. Sending our love…

  5. Dana Blanchard says:

    Thank you so much.

    1. Matt Licata says:

      You’re welcome, Dana – thank you for stopping by and for sharing the journey with us.

  6. Nancy Fabiano says:

    Wow Matt ~ what an amazing post. Your timing is beautiful, the words resonate so. Thank you so much for sharing your voice, your heart. I had a huge insight this week during an acupuncture session; I saw with utter clarity (in some brief glimpse of eternity) this strange and wonderful paradox that came from a decision I made a lifetime ago to withhold my inner light. The cost of protecting my heart, closing down, was a decision to not let anything in. Anything.
    and yet …. Love has been reaching out to me, asking me to come home, because below is a poem I wrote on July 2nd, over 2 months ago. Reading your post today reminded me of it so I went back and found it. And so, the threads we weave come back to us, reach out to others, then spin back to us in time somehow. Go figure. Here’s to living in the mystery of it all.
    Nancy Fabiano, Kansas City

    ~~~~~~~~

    In my dreams I see a great river
    she is flowing inside me.
    The river pours forth, taking everything away that is not me
    Once it’s gone, there will be a light,
    the magnificence of which had only been hinted at.
    I am afraid, yet I can no more NOT do this that I can not take in my next breath.
    THIS is that breath. This Here-Now moment
    so beautifully ripe
    so true.
    May I allow all that I am not, to pour out of me.
    May the earth take it
    and may fire be the alchemy,
    the offering.

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