Microdosing Bravery

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July 12, 2022

Kristen Lee, EdD, LICSW, is an award-winning behavioral science and leadership professor, clinician, researcher, activist, comedian, and the author of Reset, Mentalligence, and with Sounds True, her newest book, Worth the Risk. The host of Crackin’ Up, she has over two decades of clinical experience in mental health and twelve years of teaching and leadership roles in higher education, focusing on underserved populations. She leads the Behavior Science program at Northeastern University. 

In this podcast, Kristen Lee joins Sounds True founder Tami Simon to talk about how strategically “microdosing” risk can cultivate courage and resilience in the face of challenge and adversity. Kristen and Tami discuss: embodying a sense of gumption and spirit; bringing mental health out of the shadows; measuring our risks against our values; how risk can nurture resilience; the importance of safe relationships; finding the right balance between being on the edge and being safe; anxiety as a “frenemy,” and how self-acceptance and compassion support healing and change; microdosing bravery in our creative pursuits; freeing ourselves from the need for external validation; moving from being a spectator to an active changemaker in the world and looking for ways we can begin our own process of active contribution; confronting your biases and prejudices; the illusion of perfection; the cult of overachievement; the new psychological safety; and more.

Kristen Lee, EdD, LICSW, is an award-winning Behavioral Science and Leadership professor, clinician, researcher, activist, comedian, author of Reset and Mentalligence, and host of Crackin’ Up. She has over two decades of clinical experience in mental health, and twelve years of teaching and leadership roles in higher education, focusing on underserved populations. She leads the Behavior Science program at Northeastern University. She lives in Boston, Massachusetts. For more, visit kristenlee.com.

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Be What You Want to Receive: Three Ways to Experiment ...

At a time when we’re marinating in trauma and dealing with the test of a lifetime, we all wish things were different. When what we want from life is a million mile march from what it actually is, it can seem like we need a massive intervention to keep facing what’s at hand. 

But research shows that small things can make a big difference. Just like stress is cumulative, so are the daily steps we take to grow and give.

Microdoses of bravery add up. To start, consider moving from asking what will the world offer me, to what will I offer the world? Tiny bits of strategic courage are sources of nourishment that can help you become what you want to receive. 

Getting comfortable with the uncomfortable is a tall order, but worth doing. Microdosing bravery can help us build the strength and stamina that helps us heal, create, and liberate from fear, despair, and isolation. 

Here are three ways you can experiment with microdosing bravery including journal prompts for reflection.

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BE LOVE. 

Loneliness is being called “the new smoking,” a modern health risk. For some, the global pandemic has strengthened relationships, allowing for bonding and teamwork like never before. For others, it’s wreaked havoc: leading to feeling smothered and stuck. For those living alone, distancing has been brutal, making love feel far from reach. Loss, whether through death, divorce, breakups, or other factors, singes our hearts. We can become avoidant and skeptical of our future potential to love and be loved. 

When we strive to embody love, it’s essential to keep an open mind and heart. Loving connections are protective factors to our well-being. Consider these microdoses of bravery to strengthen your relationships, your sense of belonging, and the co-creation of new love paradigms in your life:

  • Get real. Go through your friends on social media and make a list of all the real people in your life with whom you can be yourself. Make a conscious effort to spend time outside of social media. Thank them for being so real to you and vow you’ll do the same.
  • Spark connection. Initiate a conversation with a partner or friend to see if you can build greater intimacy or camaraderie. To improve your connection, ask them what would mean a lot to them, and offer your own thoughts too.
  • Seek affinity relationships. Write a short poem or essay about yourself to clarify your various identities and then seek an affinity connection. Invite that person for coffee. Don’t shy away from sharing yourself and nudging them to do the same.
  • Be innovative. Create your own bravery microdose to help you be love.

Take note:

Write down what you chose to do and reflect on how it cultivated love in your life. Consider sharing this with someone you trust to help you maximize your efforts.

BE HEALING. 

The level of trauma at hand has ravaged our lives, making healing feel elusive on a good day, impossible on a bad. Given the magnitude of suffering at hand, healing should not be trivialized as a three-step process. Healing requires enormous courage. Microdosing bravery can help us reach out and tap in to the many forms of restoration available to us.  

Understanding how resilience works is a helpful way to begin healing. Gone are the days when it was viewed as a character trait—something you’re born with or not. There’s a lot of hype about being gritty and never letting anyone see you sweat that gets in the way of us finding the right support. Here are some ways to microdose bravery to foster healing and build resilience:

  • Recognize you’re not alone. The biggest lie our difficulties tell us is that we’re the only ones dealing with such intense suffering. All of us are living in a global mental health crisis, with exorbitant pressures and crushing circumstances. Suffering is part of our shared humanity. Finding solidarity and safe community can serve as a catalyst to healing. As we get traction in our own healing process, our acts of courage can be nourishing and healing to those around us.
  • Self-advocate. Healing requires intentional change in our communication. Many of us are comfortable and willing to give help, but few are asking for it. Identify one trusted person in your life that you know has the emotional maturity and skills to listen and support you. Tell them what you’re going through and work with them to identify potential roads toward healing, such as therapy, strategic behavioral change, and targeted self-care.
  • Set boundaries. Untreated trauma and unresolved issues can haunt us and impair the quality of our lives. By paying attention to what we say yes and no to, we can ensure we are leaving space for growth after we’ve gone through significant stressors. Find language to courageously share what you can commit to, and what you cannot. Enlist support to help you firmly protect your time so that you can devote attention to healing and restoration.
  • Identify resources. Take some time to scan your direct environment for things that nurture and sustain you. Select one or two things that can be microdosed to build your bravery.

Take note:

Write down things that help you experience healing. How can you continue to build off this?

BE A LIBERATOR. 

Society can project a lot onto us, caging us into patterns of conformity that can become harmful. Freedom to live as our truest selves isn’t something that comes with safety or ease. The work of unhooking from social prescriptions and ills can be fraught and exhausting. Still, when we find the courage to call out injustice and fight for a more humane world, we can experience exuberance and help change paradigms.

When we strive to liberate, we realize that we must dismantle oppression. That we must advocate for inclusivity and human reverence, particularly for social identities that are marginalized and harmed. Constrained living hinders human progress, individually and collectively. Consider these microdoses of bravery to liberate from social constructs that are harmful:

  • Let go. Take inventory of so-called social “norms” and become less apt to cower in the face of social impositions that are dismissive and destructive toward “difference.” Embrace your own multidimensionality, and that of humanity.
  • Speak up. We all have opportunities to be active contributors rather than passive bystanders in the world. Practicing accountability means that we call out injustice and work to eradicate forms of human suffering and imprisonment—whether based on race, gender, orientation, age, place of origin, or other social identity categories.
  • Practice human reverence. Move from me to we. See the glory and wonder across the human spectrum. Honor varied identities and perspectives. Work to find and engage in diverse relationships, rather than staying insular or spending time with those that look like, love like, and think like you. Become a liberator by standing fervently with those who’ve been marginalized, oppressed, or discriminated against. Seek ways to forge change, bit by bit.
  • Break Free. Create your own bravery microdose to help you liberate.

Take note:

What do you need to be liberated from? Do you know someone who is struggling in a similar way? How might you join forces and work together to become freer?

Author Kristen LeeKristen Lee, EdD, LICSW, is an award-winning Behavioral Science and Leadership professor, clinician, researcher, activist, comedian, author of Worth the Risk: How to Microdose Bravery to Grow Resilience, Connect More, and Offer Yourself to the World, and host of Crackin’ Up. She has over two decades of clinical experience in mental health, and twelve years of teaching and leadership roles in higher education, focusing on underserved populations. She leads the Behavior Science program at Northeastern University. For more, visit kristenlee.com.

 

 

 

 

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Microdosing Bravery

Kristen Lee, EdD, LICSW, is an award-winning behavioral science and leadership professor, clinician, researcher, activist, comedian, and the author of Reset, Mentalligence, and with Sounds True, her newest book, Worth the Risk. The host of Crackin’ Up, she has over two decades of clinical experience in mental health and twelve years of teaching and leadership roles in higher education, focusing on underserved populations. She leads the Behavior Science program at Northeastern University. 

In this podcast, Kristen Lee joins Sounds True founder Tami Simon to talk about how strategically “microdosing” risk can cultivate courage and resilience in the face of challenge and adversity. Kristen and Tami discuss: embodying a sense of gumption and spirit; bringing mental health out of the shadows; measuring our risks against our values; how risk can nurture resilience; the importance of safe relationships; finding the right balance between being on the edge and being safe; anxiety as a “frenemy,” and how self-acceptance and compassion support healing and change; microdosing bravery in our creative pursuits; freeing ourselves from the need for external validation; moving from being a spectator to an active changemaker in the world and looking for ways we can begin our own process of active contribution; confronting your biases and prejudices; the illusion of perfection; the cult of overachievement; the new psychological safety; and more.

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Healing Trauma and Building A Resilient Life

Trauma has a way of leaving a mark by quietly shaping how we move through the world, touch joy, and weather pain. For many, it takes the form of upheaval that knocks the ground out from beneath us, or a subtle ache that lingers long after others have moved on. The journey of healing from trauma can feel overwhelming and, at times, incredibly lonely. Yet there is wisdom in remembering you are not alone.

At Sounds True, we’ve made it our mission to share spiritual teachings that illuminate the path from suffering toward wholeness. We believe in meeting pain with heart, honesty, and compassion, leaning into difficult truths while holding fast to hope and inner strength. In this exploration of how to overcome trauma, we’ll draw from timeless spiritual insights and modern approaches, honoring the resilience within each of us.

Key Takeaways:

  • Trauma’s Lasting Imprint on Body, Mind, and Spirit: Trauma shows up in physical tension, mental patterns, and spiritual disconnection. Recognizing these imprints is the first step toward healing from trauma.
  • Knowing When and Where to Seek Support: Signs like overwhelm, persistent flashbacks, or deep isolation reveal when extra care is needed. True companions in trauma recovery offer empathy, patience, consistency, and safety. A solid support network may include trusted friends who respect boundaries, family members who listen compassionately.
  • Mindfulness, Movement, and Somatic Routines That Restore Balance: Gentle practices, breathwork, mindful meditation, and somatic approaches help calm the nervous system and guide you in overcoming traumatic experiences with grounded resilience.

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How Trauma Shapes the Body, Mind, and Spirit

Trauma often plants itself deep within us, sending ripples that touch our bodies, thoughts, and sense of meaning. These echoes can become roadblocks that make achieving goals feel daunting and growth seem out of reach. By exploring how trauma affects the body, mind, and spirit, we begin to see why healing from trauma requires patience, compassion, and an integrated approach.

The Body Remembers

Trauma can take root in the body, sparking fight, flight, or freeze responses long after the original event has passed. A racing heart, clenched jaw, or tense shoulders may surface without warning. Fatigue, headaches, and restlessness are also common, as they are physical reminders of the story the body still carries. These signals are not signs of weakness; they are the nervous system’s way of seeking safety. Over time, unaddressed patterns can weigh heavily, making everyday tasks or long-term goals feel nearly impossible.

The Mind Holds the Story

As for the mind, trauma often reshapes the way we see ourselves and the world. Hypervigilance can keep us braced for danger even in safe spaces. At other times, numbness may settle in, leaving us cut off from our feelings. Thoughts can spiral into shame, self-blame, or confusion. These mental loops act like barriers, clouding focus and blocking progress toward the life we long to create. Healing begins when we notice these patterns with curiosity, kindness, and a willingness to practice trauma recovery step by step.

The Spirit Feels the Weight

Trauma can also dim the spirit, shaking our sense of meaning and belonging. Disconnection may show up as a loss of trust in life, difficulty accessing hope, or a lingering feeling of isolation. Spiritual wounds often leave us adrift, as though the light within has gone out. Yet within this pain lies the possibility of rediscovery. By tending to the spirit, we create space for renewal, resilience, and a deeper connection to purpose.

Types of Trauma and Where They Stem From

Trauma does not take a single form, but rather it arises from many experiences, each carrying its own weight and ripple effects. Here are some types of trauma and where they originate from:

  • Acute trauma: A single event such as an accident, natural disaster, or sudden loss.
  • Chronic trauma: Repeated exposure to distressing experiences like ongoing abuse or neglect.
  • Complex trauma: Multiple, layered experiences that compound over time, often in early life.
  • Generational trauma: Pain and patterns carried through families and communities across generations.
  • Secondary or vicarious trauma: Emotional residue absorbed from witnessing or supporting others in their suffering.

Signs You Might Need Extra Support

Sometimes, despite our best intentions, the journey through trauma leaves us feeling isolated and overwhelmed. Healing is rarely linear, and even the most steadfast hearts sometimes need a guide or a helping hand. But how do you know when to reach outside yourself for extra support? Here are some signs that reaching for extra trauma recovery support may be helpful:

  • Daily life feels unmanageable: Struggling with eating, sleeping, or maintaining routines can signal that your system is carrying more than it can process alone.
  • Emotions feel unrelenting: Persistent sadness, anxiety, sudden waves of anger, or a lingering sense of numbness may point to unresolved pain seeking acknowledgment.
  • Flashbacks and intrusive memories appear: Past experiences may surface vividly, interrupting present-moment focus and draining emotional energy.
  • Hopelessness takes hold: A growing belief that life cannot change or that joy feels out of reach often indicates the need for compassionate guidance.
  • Trust feels fragile: Difficulty relying on loved ones or believing others have your best interest at heart can deepen feelings of isolation.
  • Unhealthy coping becomes a default: Turning to excessive screen time, substance use, or withdrawal from relationships may bring temporary relief but create long-term barriers to growth.
  • Connection feels impossible: Even when surrounded by friends or family, a sense of disconnection or shrinking inner world can leave you feeling unseen.

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Mindfulness and Meditation to Soothe the Nervous System

When life’s turbulence shakes us, our nervous system can linger in a state of high alert. After trauma, the body remembers. We might feel jumpy, restless, or stuck in spirals of anxiety. This is where mindfulness and meditation offer a gentle refuge. By returning to the present, these practices help soothe the nervous system and create space for resilience.

Returning to Presence Through Mindfulness

Mindfulness is the practice of noticing what is happening here and now without judgment. Instead of forcing the mind to be quiet, mindfulness welcomes each breath, sensation, or thought with gentle awareness. A simple practice might include observing the rise and fall of the breath, or listening to surrounding sounds as they come and go. These small acts of presence remind the nervous system that safety exists in the present moment, easing the grip of fear and helping the body relax.

Meditation as Daily Restoration

Meditation builds on mindfulness by offering structure and repetition. Daily rituals—whether focusing on the breath, practicing loving-kindness, or walking with intention in nature—send steady messages of calm to the body and mind. Even five minutes of stillness can tell the nervous system, “You are safe now.” Over weeks and months, this repeated reassurance creates new patterns of ease and resilience, contributing to the long process of healing from trauma.

Practical Strategies for Soothing the Nervous System

Trauma can make stillness feel impossible at times. On those days, gentle practices help create accessible entry points into mindfulness:

  • Grounding through breathwork: Slow, steady inhales and longer exhales remind the body that calm is available.
  • Body scans: Bringing attention to each area of the body, from toes to crown, allows hidden tension to surface and soften.
  • Loving-kindness meditation: Repeating compassionate phrases toward yourself and others can gradually replace self-criticism with warmth.
  • Mindful movement: Walking slowly, practicing yoga, or simply stretching with awareness anchors presence in physical sensation.
  • Sensory focus: Engaging with sights, sounds, or textures in the environment creates steady anchors in the present moment.

Building a Compassionate Support Network

The path of healing from trauma often feels heavy, yet connection can ease the weight. A compassionate support network provides steady encouragement, safe presence, and spaces where your voice is honored. These relationships help you take steps forward in trauma recovery, reminding you that resilience grows through shared care.

Who Can Be Part of a Compassionate Support Network

The work of healing from trauma often grows stronger in the presence of safe and caring relationships. For example, friends who listen without judgment, family members who honor your boundaries, and mentors who embody guidance can all help restore a sense of belonging. In these connections, you find people who hold space for your story rather than rushing to fix it.

During trauma recovery, collective spaces such as support groups or spiritual communities can also serve as anchors. Shared rituals, honest conversations, and circles of empathy create reminders that you are not walking the path alone. Professional guidance from therapists and counselors adds another layer of care, bringing compassionate expertise and tools that help you process pain in fruitful ways.

When Compassion Is Missing from Relationships

On the journey of healing from trauma, recognizing who can walk beside you is as vital as noticing who cannot. While many people bring kindness, patience, and steadiness, some may unintentionally add weight to your healing. Some dismiss or minimize your experiences, leaving you feeling unheard. Others pressure you to “move on” before you are ready, or turn the focus back to themselves rather than honoring your story. These dynamics often carry judgment, criticism, or a disregard for the boundaries you need to feel safe.

During trauma recovery, awareness of these patterns matters. By noticing which relationships drain rather than restore, you protect your energy and open more space for trust and resilience. The process of overcoming traumatic experiences involves surrounding yourself with people who create safety rather than erode it, who offer presence instead of pressure, and who remind you through their actions that your healing is worthy of time.

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Somatic Approaches That Help Release Stress and Trauma

The body often carries what words cannot express. Tight shoulders, a clenched jaw, or an unsettled chest remind us that trauma leaves traces in our physical form as well as in memory. Somatic practices recognize this truth by inviting the body into the process of healing from trauma. Through gentle attention, movement, and breath, the nervous system can rediscover balance, offering a grounded path forward in trauma recovery.

Everyday Somatic Practices That Restore Balance

Somatic approaches bridge the mind and body through awareness of sensation. Simple routines such as body scanning, slow yoga, or tai chi invite you to notice where tension resides and allow it to soften. Breathwork, with its steady rhythm of inhaling and exhaling, anchors presence and quiets lingering agitation.

Even small gestures like placing a hand over your heart or humming softly can serve as reminders that calm is within reach. Over time, these rituals shift the body from storing pain toward cultivating safety and resilience, helping you continue overcoming traumatic experiences with steadier ground beneath you.

Learning Somatic Wisdom Through Sounds True

For those ready to explore these practices in greater depth, Sounds True offers a wealth of teachings through audiobooks and courses. These resources feature teachers who guide you in somatic routines designed to reconnect body and mind.

From step-by-step instruction in breathwork to explorations of mindful movement, the catalog brings both accessible practices and deeper study into your daily life. With consistent practice, these teachings open the door to a body that feels less like a container for stress and more like a sanctuary for healing. In this way, Sounds True extends compassionate tools for your journey of trauma recovery.

Final Thoughts

Overcoming trauma shouldn’t be about erasing the past or pretending pain never touched your life. Instead, this journey should be about learning to hold your story with tenderness and watching as spirit slowly reshapes wounds into strength. At Sounds True, we have witnessed again and again how resilience rises when pain is met with kindness, curiosity, and courage.

You are never meant to walk this road alone. Wisdom flows from spiritual teachers, trusted friends, and guides who create spaces of safety. With these companions beside you, the process of overcoming traumatic experiences becomes less about carrying a burden and more about uncovering a wellspring of resilience. In this unfolding, a life that feels grounded, heart-led, and true begins to take form.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Overcoming Trauma

What are the common symptoms of trauma?

Trauma can show up in countless ways, both visible and invisible. You might notice flashbacks, nightmares, or trouble sleeping. Some people feel anxious or on edge, avoiding reminders of what happened, or having frequent mood swings. Others experience physical symptoms like unexplained aches, a racing heart, or stomach distress. Remember, every response is valid, and trauma shapes us all differently.

What is PTSD, and how is it related to trauma?

PTSD, or post-traumatic stress disorder, is a specific diagnosis that can develop after a traumatic event. It’s marked by symptoms like re-experiencing the trauma, intense emotional distress, hypervigilance, and avoidance of triggers. While not everyone who experiences trauma will get PTSD, the two are intimately connected. PTSD offers a clinical lens, but any struggle after trauma is worth honoring and addressing.

Are there self-help strategies for overcoming trauma?

Absolutely. Healing starts with small, gentle steps. Mindful breathing, grounding exercises, movement, and connecting with supportive people can all help. Journaling, spending time in nature, or practicing self-compassion are other powerful tools. You don’t have to climb the mountain in one day. Small acts of self-care can make a transformative difference over time.

What types of therapy are effective for trauma?

Several therapies have been shown to support trauma recovery. Approaches like somatic experiencing, EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), trauma-informed cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and Internal Family Systems (IFS) can all be effective. Sometimes, simply being in the presence of a compassionate, skilled therapist. no matter the modality, makes the most impact.

What role does mindfulness play in healing trauma?

Mindfulness gently invites us back into our bodies, one breath at a time. It helps us notice our feelings and sensations with curiosity instead of judgment. Practices like meditation, mindful movement, or even mindful walking can foster safety and presence, making space for healing to unfold gradually and organically.

Can medication help with trauma recovery?

For some, medication can offer relief, especially when symptoms like anxiety or depression feel overbearing. While medication isn’t a cure, it can be a valuable companion alongside therapy and self-care, helping to regulate your nervous system while you rebuild inner strength. Always consult with a caring, qualified provider to explore what’s right for you.

Is it normal to feel numb or disconnected after trauma?

Of course. Feeling numb, detached, or even like you’re outside your own body is a common trauma response. Your mind and body are trying to protect you from pain. Over time, and with the right support, these feelings can soften. Be gentle with yourself; numbness often signals that you’re surviving the best way you know how.

What are healthy ways to express emotions related to trauma?

Validation is the first step, and letting yourself feel whatever arises is brave work. Creative outlets like art, music, or movement can help give shape to complex emotions. Talking with trusted friends, therapists, or support groups can bring connection and relief. Most importantly, honor your own pace, as there’s no right or wrong way to express what you carry.

Michelle Cassandra Johnson is an author, activist, spiritual teacher, racial equity consultant, and intuitive healer. She is the author of six books, including Skill in Action and Finding Refuge. Amy Burtaine is a leadership coach and racial equity trainer. With Robin DiAngelo, she is the coauthor of The Facilitator's Guide for White Affinity Groups. For more, visit https://www.michellecjohnson.com/wisdom-of-the-hive.

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