nico and devon hase are married Buddhist teachers who help others blossom in the beautiful challenge of long-term romance. nico lived in a monastery for six years before earning a PhD in counseling psychology. devon teaches at Insight Meditation Society, Spirit Rock, and other meditation centers. Coauthors of How Not to Be a Hot Mess, they live in a converted van named “Chanda”—experiencing firsthand the rocky terrain of partnership in close quarters. For more, visit devonandnicohase.com.