Boundary Boss

The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen, and (Finally) Live Free
Hardcover Book
Hardcover Book
Paperback Book - Preorder
Available May 9, 2023
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If you’ve ever felt like you just can’t say no—even to the point of frustration, overwhelm, and suffering—Terri Cole presents a comprehensive set of solutions in Boundary Boss. Cole offers not just insights but actionable tools for expressing preferences, setting limits, and consciously taking control of every aspect of your life.

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Break Free From Over-Functioning, Over-Delivering, People-Pleasing, and Ignoring Your Own Needs So You Can Finally Live the Life You Deserve! 

Most of us were never taught how to effectively express our preferences, desires or deal-breakers. Instead, we hide our feelings behind passive-aggressive behavior, deny our own truths, or push our emotions down until we get depressed or so frustrated that we explode, potentially destroying hard-won trust and relationships.

The most successful and satisfied people on the planet have one thing in common: the ability to create and communicate clear, healthy boundaries. This ability is, hands down, the biggest game changer when it comes to creating a healthy, happy, self-determined life.

In Boundary Boss, psychotherapist Terri Cole reveals a specific set of skills that can help you stop abandoning yourself for the sake of others (without guilt or drama) and get empowered to consciously take control of every aspect of your emotional, spiritual, physical, personal, and professional life.

Since becoming a Boundary Boss is a process, Cole also offers actionable strategies, scripts, and techniques that can be used in the moment, whenever you need them. You will learn:

  • How to recognize when your boundaries have been violated and what to do next
  • How your unique “Boundary Blueprint” is unconsciously driving your boundary behaviors, and strategies to redesign it
  • Powerful boundary scripts so in the moment you will know what to say
  • How to manage “Boundary Destroyers”—including emotional manipulators, narcissists, and other toxic personalities
  • Where you fall on the spectrum of codependency and how to create healthy, balanced relationships
Format Details
Hardcover Book Paperback Book - Preorder (Available May 9, 2023) eBook
Contents Hardcover Book (272 pages) Paperback Book (272 pages) eBook (272 pages)
Dimensions 6 x 9 inches 6 x 9 inches
Product Code BK06192 BK06619 BK06192W
ISBN Number 978-1-68364-768-3 978-1-64963-055-1 978-1-68364-769-0
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Terri Cole

About Terri Cole

Terri Cole, MSW, LCSW, is a licensed psychotherapist and global leading expert in female empowerment. For two decades, Terri has worked with some of the world’s most well-known personalities, from international pop stars to Fortune 500 CEOs. Terri has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and then actionable, so that clients and students achieve sustainable change—that is, true transformation. She empowers over 250,000 people weekly through her blog; social media platform; signature courses, Real Love Revolution™ and Boundary Bootcamp™; and popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. Learn more about her work at

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