4 Ways to Rest This Holiday Season

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December 19, 2019

Giving yourself permission to rest during the holiday time is perhaps the most radical—and life-saving—act you can do. Here are a few easy ways to give yourself the gift of rest. Your family and friends will thank you—and might just lie down too!

Meditate Every Morning or Evening

If you have 15-minutes, try practicing yoga nidra meditation, a guided meditation also known as yogic sleep. This is supreme relaxation. You can find yoga nidra online. If you don’t have that kind of time, silent meditation for even just 3 minutes every day can feel restful. Close your eyes, and notice your breath. You can repeat a mantra or a relaxing word as you breathe in and out. If family is visiting and you don’t have a quiet spot in the house, meditate in your car or even in the bathroom!

Breath Counting

We tend to forget just how restful it can feel to breathe. Breath counting pulls the mind away from stress and towards a more centered, balanced feeling. To practice, count backwards slowly, with rhythmic inhalations and exhalations, and say to yourself as you breathe, “Breathing in, 11, breathing out, 11, breathing in, 10, breathing out, 10.” And so on, counting down to one. You do this while breathing the whole body or engage a chakra and breathe into that area. Befriend the breath.

Walking Meditation (extra points for bare feet!)

If you’re stressed over the holidays, walk in silence on the ground for five minutes or more. As Thich Nhat Hanh says, “Walk as if your feet are kissing the earth.” Walking bare-footed is ideal—outside or in your home. More and more evidence suggests that we need the Earth’s electrons for our well-being—it improves sleep, pain management, and stress. If you can’t walk in silence, try cooking your holiday meal mindfully in bare feet, Your body will thank you.

Watch the Sun Set or Rise

Sunrise and sunset are mystical times of the day. Busy lives don’t easily give us access to the soul. During sunset and sunrise the veils of illusions, which pull us away from our truest self, are thin. We can see ourselves more clearly and feel more intuitive and creative. If you can, watch the sun set or rise in silence. Your nervous system will thank you.

Karen Brody Karen Brody is a women’s well-being and leadership expert who helps women journey from worn out to well rested and then dream big in their work and lives. A certified yoga nidra instructor, she is the author of Daring to Rest: Reclaim Your Power with Yoga Nidra Rest Meditation, founder of Daring to Rest, a yoga nidra-based self-empowerment program for women. She has an MA in Women and International Development from the Institute of Social Studies in the Netherlands, and a BA in sociology from Vassar. Karen is also a playwright, and Birth, her theater-for-social-change play has been seen in over 75 cities around the world. She is the mother of two boys and met her husband in the Peace Corps. She resides in Washington, DC, but considers the world her home.

The community here at Sounds True wishes you a lovely holiday season! We are happy to collaborate with some of our Sounds True authors to offer you wisdom and practices as we move into this time together; please enjoy this blog series for your holiday season. 

To help encourage you and your loved ones to explore new possibilities this holiday season, we’re offering 40% off nearly all of our programs, books, and courses sitewide. May you find the wisdom to light your way. 

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Karen Brody

Karen Brody is a women’s well-being and leadership expert who helps women journey from worn out to well rested and then dream big in their work and lives. A certified yoga nidra instructor, she is the founder of Daring to Rest™, a yoga nidra-based self-empowerment program for women. She has an MA in Women and International Development from the Institute of Social Studies in the Netherlands, and a BA in sociology from Vassar. Karen is also a playwright, and Birth, her theater-for-social-change play has been seen in over 75 cities around the world. She is the mother of two boys and met her husband in the Peace Corps. She resides in Washington, DC, but considers the world her home.

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4 Ways to Rest This Holiday Season

Giving yourself permission to rest during the holiday time is perhaps the most radical—and life-saving—act you can do. Here are a few easy ways to give yourself the gift of rest. Your family and friends will thank you—and might just lie down too!

Meditate Every Morning or Evening

If you have 15-minutes, try practicing yoga nidra meditation, a guided meditation also known as yogic sleep. This is supreme relaxation. You can find yoga nidra online. If you don’t have that kind of time, silent meditation for even just 3 minutes every day can feel restful. Close your eyes, and notice your breath. You can repeat a mantra or a relaxing word as you breathe in and out. If family is visiting and you don’t have a quiet spot in the house, meditate in your car or even in the bathroom!

Breath Counting

We tend to forget just how restful it can feel to breathe. Breath counting pulls the mind away from stress and towards a more centered, balanced feeling. To practice, count backwards slowly, with rhythmic inhalations and exhalations, and say to yourself as you breathe, “Breathing in, 11, breathing out, 11, breathing in, 10, breathing out, 10.” And so on, counting down to one. You do this while breathing the whole body or engage a chakra and breathe into that area. Befriend the breath.

Walking Meditation (extra points for bare feet!)

If you’re stressed over the holidays, walk in silence on the ground for five minutes or more. As Thich Nhat Hanh says, “Walk as if your feet are kissing the earth.” Walking bare-footed is ideal—outside or in your home. More and more evidence suggests that we need the Earth’s electrons for our well-being—it improves sleep, pain management, and stress. If you can’t walk in silence, try cooking your holiday meal mindfully in bare feet, Your body will thank you.

Watch the Sun Set or Rise

Sunrise and sunset are mystical times of the day. Busy lives don’t easily give us access to the soul. During sunset and sunrise the veils of illusions, which pull us away from our truest self, are thin. We can see ourselves more clearly and feel more intuitive and creative. If you can, watch the sun set or rise in silence. Your nervous system will thank you.

Karen Brody Karen Brody is a women’s well-being and leadership expert who helps women journey from worn out to well rested and then dream big in their work and lives. A certified yoga nidra instructor, she is the author of Daring to Rest: Reclaim Your Power with Yoga Nidra Rest Meditation, founder of Daring to Rest, a yoga nidra-based self-empowerment program for women. She has an MA in Women and International Development from the Institute of Social Studies in the Netherlands, and a BA in sociology from Vassar. Karen is also a playwright, and Birth, her theater-for-social-change play has been seen in over 75 cities around the world. She is the mother of two boys and met her husband in the Peace Corps. She resides in Washington, DC, but considers the world her home.

The community here at Sounds True wishes you a lovely holiday season! We are happy to collaborate with some of our Sounds True authors to offer you wisdom and practices as we move into this time together; please enjoy this blog series for your holiday season. 

To help encourage you and your loved ones to explore new possibilities this holiday season, we’re offering 40% off nearly all of our programs, books, and courses sitewide. May you find the wisdom to light your way. 

EXPLORE NOW

 

We Dare You to Rest This Holiday Season

When to say “No” & “Yes”

One of the most exhausting stress loops for women starts with saying “yes” when we feel “no”. Becoming your most authentic self is the first step to learning what a “no” and a “yes” feel like in your body. We often tell women to say no more, but equally as troublesome is that we also don’t feel and then follow our yeses.

Here’s a quick way to practice sensing what “yes” and “no” feel like to you:

  1. Put your hand on your heart and gut.
  2. Place your attention at the space between your eyebrows (your third eye).
  3. Inhale from the space between your eyebrows to the base of your spine, while mentally saying “Sooooo.” Then exhale from the base of your spine to the space between your eyebrows while mentally saying the sound, “Hummmmm.” Repeat twice more.
  4. Be still as you rest your attention on your third eye for 20 to 30 seconds.
  5. Call up a question you want an answer to, and see if you feel a “yes” or “no.”

For women who have lots of decisions to make, like mothers, I often suggest making a list of all the things stressing them out, and then, on the same day every week, doing this practice, seeing if they get a “yes” or “no” for each item on the list. This is also a great practice to do weekly when you’re pregnant, because giving birth centered in your true self, knowing your “yes” and “no,” is the best gift you can give your baby.

Using this practice to help make decisions will help you stop overdoing. You begin with feeling, drop your ego, and then, from your true nature, make decisions that end the worn-out feeling. Beware of mistaking things you love to do as a “yes.” For example, many of the creative moms I work with love to cook, but when they use this practice to ask whether they want to stay up cooking cupcakes late at night for their children’s school when they have work the next day, the answer they get might well be “no.”

Sometimes you may be faced with a difficult “no”: your inner wisdom will tell you that saying “no” to something will liberate time, but saying “no” may not feel good right away or may disappoint someone. If this happens, I encourage you to say “no” anyway. If you want to feel well-rested, you need to make the choice that supports your wholeness.

 

Love Yourself First

Most of us have heard flight attendants on an airplane say, “Put your own oxygen mask on first, and then secure your loved one’s.” This is an important message that well-rested women get in every bone of their bodies: love yourself first. The first thing your loved ones need is a healthy you. Here are two ways to do that.

 

  • Give Kindness
    • When you’re spinning in mental loops and stressed out, it’s hard to be kind to yourself or others. But as I always say after yoga nidra, I feel like I drank a cup of kindness. To capitalize on and reinforce this feeling, repeat this loving-kindness meditation.
      • Say to yourself:
        • May I be happy.
        • May I be safe.
        • May I be free of physical pain and suffering.
        • May I be able to recognize and touch harmony and joy in myself.
        • May I nourish wholesome seeds in myself.
        • May I be healthy, peaceful, and strong.

Notice how you feel in your body. When you’re ready, you can move on to saying the words for others: May (name of a loved one) be happy. May (he/she) be safe.

 

  • Go on Wonder Dates
    • Schedule quiet time for yourself. My friend and colleague Jeffrey Davis, of Tracking Wonder, a creative branding company, loves to say, “Wonder is not kid’s stuff. It’s radical grown-up stuff.” That’s right, taking time for wonder is an essential multi-vitamin for adults, too. It helps clear your mind and relax the body.
    • What’s wonder? It’s a time to be curious, to not know something. It’s the gratitude and amazement we feel when we see a shooting star or a beautiful full moon. Try finding a quiet space to read poetry, or sitting in a tree and then journaling about what you see and how it makes you feel. Many spots in nature call up wonder. Wonder sparks ideas, so the more time you spend in wonder, the juicer you will feel when you return to your everyday life.
    • And if you think you don’t have time, think again. Jeffrey has two little girls, and as he says, he “sculpts time” for wonder by intentionally planning space to wonder into his calendar.

 

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Excerpted from Daring to Rest, by Karen Brody.

Karen Brody is a speaker and the founder of Bold Tranquility, a company offering yoga nidra meditation for the modern women via downloadable products and workshops. Her work has been featured in Better Homes & Gardens, and she’s a regular contributor to The Huffington Post. She’s also a critically acclaimed playwright. Karen had a long personal history of severe panic attacks until she found yoga nidra meditation over a decade ago. At that time, she was a sleep-deprived mother of two small children on anti-anxiety medication. She signed up for a yoga nidra meditation class simply looking to lie down for a nap. What she got was “the best nap of her life.” As she continued to practice yoga nidra regularly, her deep fatigue lifted; she wrote a critically acclaimed play, got off anti-anxiety pills, and started to teach this yoga nidra “power nap” to every exhausted mother she knew.

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Rich with meditations, poems, and inspiring true stories, Sabbath asks us to remember this most simple and gracious of all spiritual practices.

 

 

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Based on a modern evolution of the ancient practice of Yoga Nidra, the easy-to-learn iRest program provides a flexible toolbox of meditation practices that you can incorporate into your lifestyle to carry you through adversity. In these six audio sessions, Dr. Miller takes you step-by-step through a progressive series of guided exercises for managing stress utilizing the breath and body, decoding and balancing your emotional state, connecting you with deep inner resources that replenish your vital energy and sustain you regardless of your circumstances.

 

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  • Cultivating a rich inner life that includes a sense of connection—whether expressed in our spirituality, our interactions with others, or our relationship to the natural world
  • Bringing an element of fun into our lives—learning to embrace our own sense of humor as a resource for healing

 

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Key Takeaways:

  • Yoga for men is not just about physical flexibility but a holistic practice focusing on strength, centeredness, and presence.
  • Through breathwork, restorative postures, and meditation, yoga addresses modern pressures and supports overall well-being for men.
  • Embracing a yoga practice invites men to cultivate resilience, inner peace, and a balanced connection between mind and body.

Why Yoga Matters for Men’s Physical and Mental Health

Let’s be honest—life pulls men in a dozen directions at once. Work deadlines loom, relationships require nurturing, and the pressure to stay “strong” never seems to let up. It’s easy to drift toward autopilot, pushing through discomfort and shelving stress for another day. But over time, this grind takes its toll on body and mind alike.

Yoga offers a powerful, time-honored antidote. Physically, it’s more than just stretching; yoga taps into strength, balance, and mobility in ways that many traditional workouts can’t reach. When you practice regularly, you build functional muscle, increase flexibility, and protect joints—not by muscling your way through, but by working with awareness and intention. Tight hips from too much sitting? A back that tenses after long days? Yoga meets you right there, inviting your body back into alignment and ease.

And there’s the mental dimension—just as essential, if not more. A yoga mat isn’t only a place to move; it’s a refuge from the roar of daily demands. As you ground your breath and notice the subtle shifts within, stress clears, and space opens inside. Science—and centuries of lived experience—show that yoga helps reduce anxiety, improve focus, and even lift mood. You begin to feel a kind of quiet inner sturdiness, resilient but not rigid.

In a culture that often trains men to muscle through pain or silence emotion, yoga is a call back to wholeness. Here, you can let go of expectations and meet yourself exactly as you are. It’s not about perfect poses—it’s about creating space to be present, strong, and open to growth, on and off the mat.

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Foundational Breathwork to Cultivate Presence and Power

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Let’s step into a foundational practice you can carry anywhere: diaphragmatic, or “belly,” breathing.

Sit upright—on your mat, on a park bench, even at the edge of your bed. Rest one palm on your belly, the other over your heart. Close your eyes if that feels safe. Inhale deeply through your nose and feel your belly gently expand. Pause for a beat. Exhale slowly, feeling your navel draw inwards as the breath releases. Try counting: inhale for a steady four, pause, exhale for a gentle six.

Notice what happens. Your heart might slow just a little. The weight on your shoulders may soften. Thoughts drift, but the breath—your anchor—draws you home, over and over. Why does this work? Mindful breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system, the body’s natural state of rest and repair. It clears mental fog and quiets the inner critic. This simple act of returning to the breath, again and again, builds a foundation of presence—a wellspring from which strength, clarity, and resilience flow.

Restorative Postures to Enhance Recovery and Sleep Quality

A well-tended body knows the difference between tired and truly rested. In our modern, wired world, rest can sometimes feel distant—something reserved for later, for after everything else is done. But in reality, weaving moments of real restoration into your day changes everything, especially for men navigating the demands of work, relationships, and personal growth.

Restorative yoga practices welcome you back to yourself with gentle, steady poses that support muscle recovery and pave the way for deeper, more peaceful sleep. Here are a few approachable postures you can fold into your routine tonight, or any time you sense the weight of your own momentum.

1. Legs Up the Wall (Viparita Karani) Find an open wall and lie on your back, bringing your sit bones close to the wall as you extend your legs upward. Allow your arms to rest softly by your sides. This gentle inversion quiets the nervous system, soothes tired legs, and helps regulate blood flow. Settle into your breath here—slow, unhurried inhalations and exhalations—for five to ten minutes.

2. Supported Child’s Pose (Balasana) Kneel on the floor, bring your big toes together, and sink your hips toward your heels. Rest your chest and forehead on a cushion or folded blanket between your thighs. In this position, the back body gently opens while the mind settles—an invitation to ease tension in the lower back and shoulders.

3. Reclining Bound Angle (Supta Baddha Konasana) Lie back, drawing the soles of your feet together and letting your knees fall open. Place cushions beneath your knees for support, and let your arms rest wherever is most comfortable—palms up to invite a sense of openness. This pose helps open the hips and chest, encouraging the breath to flow freely, which in turn aids relaxation before sleep.

4. Supported Savasana Savasana is the deep rest at the end of every yoga practice. For extra comfort, slip a bolster or rolled blanket under your knees and a folded towel under your head. Allow your whole body to surrender to gravity, feeling supported and grounded. Stay for at least five minutes, or longer if time allows.

Each of these postures asks nothing from you except presence. They invite you to acknowledge your effort—and then let it go. The more you show up for yourself in this way, the easier it becomes to access deep restoration, not just at night, but in all the moving moments of your day.

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Flow for Improved Mobility, Balance, and Athletic Performance

It’s easy to think of yoga as simply a method to unwind—a way to de-stress at the end of a tough day or stretch after a long run. But look a little deeper, and yoga for men reveals itself as a multidimensional practice that actively supports mobility, balance, and performance for all kinds of bodies.

Consider this: every time you move through a sun salutation or hold a Warrior pose, you’re not just stretching. You’re rewiring your body’s blueprint for everyday movement. The long, mindful stretches create space in the joints, lubricate connective tissue, and unstick fascia, helping muscles recover faster and reach their full potential. If you’ve ever noticed how professional athletes seem calm—almost unflappable—on the field, there’s a good chance yoga is part of their training. The practice challenges your sense of balance, coordination, and core stability even when you’re standing still. Tiny adjustments and micro-movements wake up all those stabilizing muscles that are easy to overlook in traditional gym routines.

Yoga doesn’t demand that you twist yourself into pretzel-like shapes. Instead, it encourages exactly what every athlete—or weekend warrior—needs: functional movement. Flows that move from Downward Dog into lunges, or transitions between standing balance postures, mimic the shifting demands placed on the body during sports or daily life. The result? Improved posture, quicker reflexes, and a stronger, more resilient body that feels ready for anything.

And then there’s breath—the quiet anchor of every pose. Conscious breathing weaves through each transition, grounding the mind and building endurance from the inside out. Over time, you’ll notice that calm, focused power traveling off the mat—whether you’re reaching for a tennis serve, chasing after your kids, or navigating a stressful moment at work.

Yoga isn’t here to replace your current routine. It’s here to expand what’s possible, opening the door to strength, flexibility, and a truer connection to your own body. Step onto the mat, and you might discover new dimensions of balance, power, and presence—both in motion and in stillness.

Standing Poses that Build Functional Strength and Stability

There’s a distinct and grounded power that arises when you stand tall, with feet rooted to the earth and breath moving easily through your body. In yoga for men, standing poses are more than shapes—they’re invitations to come home to a sturdy sense of self, both physically and emotionally.

Warrior II (Virabhadrasana II) showcases this. Step your feet wide and bend your front knee, spine reaching long, gaze resolute over your front hand. This posture is both a challenge and a reassurance: as your thighs activate and shoulders draw away from your ears, there’s a primal sturdiness that emerges. You might notice old tension melting or your mind becoming anchored, focused only on this precise moment.

Next, consider Chair Pose (Utkatasana), humble in name but mighty in effect. As you bend your knees and sink your hips, arms reaching overhead, you’ll feel your thighs, calves, and even your core fire up in support. Breathing here, you gently test and build the kind of strength that translates directly into the rest of your day—standing, lifting, moving. Each breath is a nudge towards greater physical resilience.

Tree Pose (Vrksasana) changes the tempo. In its apparent stillness, Tree Pose offers an invitation to explore stability in waves, not absolutes. Stand on one leg, anchor your foot against the opposite thigh or calf, hands at your heart or lifted tall. Even if you wobble, that’s part of the wisdom—stability isn’t about never swaying, but about returning to center again and again.

Hip-Opening Practices to Counteract Office or Gym Tightness

Let’s be real—many of us spend more hours than we’d like hunched over desks or pushing our limits at the gym. Both routines, though rewarding in their own way, can breed a kind of tension in the hips that’s hard to shake. For men in particular, the hip area tends to gather up that stiffness, leaving us feeling a bit less mobile or heavy on our feet. The good news? Yoga provides reliable, grounding relief.

Start simple. Pigeon Pose (Eka Pada Rajakapotasana) is a fan favorite for a reason. Lower yourself onto the mat, guide one shin across the front, and stretch your back leg long behind you. As you fold forward, breathe into the sensation. There’s no need to force your body into the deepest stretch—let comfort and breath lead the way. Another essential is Lizard Pose (Utthan Pristhasana). Step one foot forward, lower your hips, and let gravity work its gentle magic. With each exhale, you might notice your inner thighs and hip flexors beginning to soften and make space.

Don’t underestimate the value of slow, mindful movement. Gentle twists, wide-kneed Child’s Pose, or even rocking side to side while holding a squat can create subtle shifts that add up. No matter how tight things feel, stay present, attentive, and patient. The body often lets go—just a little—when it feels respected.

The beauty of these hip-opening practices isn’t just in physical release. As the tension dissolves, you might sense stress and emotional rigidity melting away as well. Each movement invites you back into your body—grounded, steady, and a bit more open than before.

Integrating Meditation into Your Practice for Greater Focus

When it comes to yoga for men, strength and flexibility are often front and center. But just as crucial is the inner landscape: the clarity and calm that arise only when we give our minds the same care as our bodies. That’s where meditation fits in—a practice not meant just for quiet rooms or distant mountaintops, but right alongside your movement on the mat.

Meditation doesn’t demand that you empty your mind or reach some mythic place of “no thoughts.” Instead, it’s a gentle returning to the present—a way of tuning in, noticing your breath, and catching the subtle cues of tension or distraction. You might start or end your yoga session with a few minutes in easy seated stillness, closing your eyes and bringing attention to the gentle rise and fall of your breath. Notice what’s here: tight hips, maybe, or a restless mind. No need to fix—just witness.

You can weave meditation into your yoga flow, too. In standing poses, pause for a moment and direct your attention to the sensations in your feet, the way the air moves over your skin. In downward dog, allow your inhales and exhales to anchor your awareness in your body. Each pose becomes its own small meditation—a chance to practice coming back, again and again.

The real magic? Over time, this mindful attention sifts into the rest of your life. You start to catch the noise in your head before it runs wild in a meeting or when difficult emotions arise. That’s the heart of yoga for men: a strong body, yes—but also a mind that’s steady, aware, and compassionately present for whatever comes your way.

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Final Thoughts

Yoga for men isn’t about bending into pretzel shapes or striving to “perfect” a posture—it’s about building a relationship with your body, mind, and heart that’s rooted in presence. Each breath, each movement, offers an invitation to ground yourself, to return to what matters, and to cultivate calm strength in the face of life’s challenges.

At Sounds True, we’ve seen how a steady yoga practice can help men discover reservoirs of resilience and inner peace they never knew they had. The mat becomes a mirror—reflecting not only your physical state, but also your deepest needs and aspirations. It’s where you can let go of old pressures, and simply be—a space where wellbeing can blossom.

Remember, the true power of yoga isn’t measured by flexibility or how long you can hold a pose. It’s found in the way you show up for yourself, day after day, breath after breath. When you commit to this path, you’re not just investing in your own well-being—you’re creating ripples of presence and compassion that extend to everyone you meet. That’s the heart of this practice, and our deepest wish for you: that you feel strong, centered, and deeply present in every moment.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Yoga for Men

What are some common misconceptions about yoga for men?

Yoga has long been viewed, especially in the West, as a practice primarily for women or the ultra-flexible. In truth, yoga was originally practiced by men for centuries, and it’s accessible to all body types and backgrounds. Another myth is that you need to be naturally flexible or “zen” to start, but here’s the truth: yoga welcomes everyone, no matter your age or gender. 

How can men integrate mindfulness into their yoga sessions?

Mindfulness is a thread woven into every yoga practice. For men newer to the mat, try arriving a few minutes early to simply notice your breath without judgment. During each pose, keep part of your attention tuned to physical sensations—the stretch of a hip, the grounding of a foot. Consider ending your session with a brief body scan and a moment of gratitude. Over time, mindful awareness will naturally begin to follow you off the mat and into the rest of your day.

Is there specific equipment men need before doing yoga?

The beauty of yoga lies in its simplicity. Starter gear includes a supportive mat, comfortable clothes (athletic shorts or pants and a T-shirt work great), and perhaps a yoga block or strap if you’d like. Props can help make certain poses more comfortable but are not mandatory. Most importantly, bring an open mind (and a willing heart).

How does yoga for men improve sleep quality and posture?

Yoga’s blend of movement, stretching, and breathwork helps calm the nervous system, which can prepare the body for deeper, more restful sleep. Many poses gently realign the spine, release habitual tension, and awaken postural muscles, supporting a taller, prouder stance throughout your day. In time, you may notice fewer aches and an easier time getting a good night’s rest.

Does Sounds True offer yoga for men courses?

Absolutely. Sounds True partners with leading yoga teachers and wisdom holders to create inclusive, practical courses—including practices tailored specifically for men’s bodies and experiences. Explore our robust library of digital audio, video, and written resources to find a journey that feels right for you.

How can men integrate meditation into their yoga practices?

Yoga and meditation are kindred spirits—each complements the other beautifully. You can begin or end your yoga session with a short seated meditation, focusing on the breath. Guided mindfulness audio from Sounds True, or simply silent presence, can turn your physical routine into a deeply centering ritual. Even a few minutes of stillness at the end of practice can make a meaningful difference.

How long and often should men do yoga?

Consistency beats intensity. Aim for two to three sessions per week, even if each session is just 20–30 minutes. If daily practice appeals to you, short routines are powerful—think five minutes of gentle movement and mindful breathing in the morning. The most important thing is to meet yourself where you are, honoring your body’s signals and your life rhythm.

Michelle Cassandra Johnson is an author, activist, spiritual teacher, racial equity consultant, and intuitive healer. She is the author of six books, including Skill in Action and Finding Refuge. Amy Burtaine is a leadership coach and racial equity trainer. With Robin DiAngelo, she is the coauthor of The Facilitator's Guide for White Affinity Groups. For more, visit https://www.michellecjohnson.com/wisdom-of-the-hive.

Opening The Body, Freeing The Spirit: Yoga Flows To En...

Our bodies are messengers. They hold memory, emotion, resistance, and longing. With gentle attention, movement becomes more than physical; it becomes a sacred practice of release and reconnection. Through yoga for flexibility, we begin to soften the places we once braced, breathe into the spaces we once ignored, and return to ourselves with greater compassion and clarity. This kind of movement is not about performance. It is about presence. It is about remembering that each time we stretch or reach or fold, we are participating in something deeper than exercise; we are engaging in spiritual care.

For more than 40 years, Sounds True has been devoted to honoring the living transmission of spiritual wisdom in its most authentic form. Through audio teachings, online programs, and embodied practices, we’ve created a living library where seekers can connect with trusted guides, deepen their path, and awaken the body as a vessel for truth. Our programs support the whole being, mind, body, and spirit, with offerings that are both grounded and transformational.

In this piece, we will be exploring how yoga for flexibility can support emotional release, inner spaciousness, and embodied freedom, while offering spiritual connection through conscious movement.

Key Takeaways:

  • Practice Philosophy: Flexibility is not a physical achievement, but a spiritual practice rooted in softness, self-trust, and inner spaciousness.
  • Emotional Release Connection: Yoga for flexibility can support deep emotional healing through intuitive movement and embodied awareness.
  • Supportive Resources: Sounds True offers tools like mood-based yoga decks and guided rest practices that nurture both body and spirit.

Opening The Body, Freeing The Spirit: A Sacred Invitation To Move

At Sounds True, we understand that the journey of awakening often begins not in the mind, but in the body. When we create space within our physical form, we also open the door to greater emotional and spiritual freedom. This is the deeper invitation behind yoga for flexibility, not simply to stretch or lengthen, but to soften, surrender, and become present with what lives within us.

Flexibility is not a goal to be achieved; it is a process of unbinding. Each breath, each movement, becomes a conversation with the parts of ourselves that may have been holding on, protecting, or retreating. With gentle, intentional practice, the body begins to respond. Muscles lengthen, joints open, breath deepens. And with that softening, something profound happens: the spirit begins to speak more clearly.

This is not performance. It is presence. As we move through postures designed to increase mobility and ease, we are also cultivating spaciousness in our inner world. We learn how to stay with sensation, to breathe through resistance, to meet ourselves exactly where we are. In doing so, we align with the deeper rhythm of life itself.

Yoga for flexibility, at its core, is an act of trust. Trusting the body’s wisdom, trusting the spirit’s timing, and trusting that healing and transformation do not require force, only attention.

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Releasing The Grip Of Expectation

Many of us come to the mat with unconscious goals: touch the toes, hold the pose longer, go deeper into the stretch. But the moment we release those goals, we begin to enter into a different kind of relationship with the body, one built on listening instead of pushing. Flexibility, in this sense, becomes a byproduct of presence, not pressure.

Meeting Resistance With Compassion

Tightness in the body is often linked to protection, layers of stored emotion, memory, or trauma that manifest as tension. Yoga for flexibility teaches us to stay with those sensations rather than override them. In that space of patient attention, true healing begins to unfold.

Transforming Movement Into Prayer

As the body begins to open, a quiet spaciousness arises. Each posture becomes less about form and more about feeling, less about shape and more about truth. Movement is no longer mechanical; it becomes an intimate, sacred act of returning to self.

Bringing Depth To Your Practice

If you’re called to explore the union of movement and inner work, the Yoga and Movement collection at Sounds True offers a wide range of teachings that support both physical exploration and spiritual connection. Guided by trusted voices in the field, these resources invite you to move with reverence, depth, and presence.

How Yoga For Flexibility Cultivates Inner Spaciousness

Flexibility is not just something we practice in the muscles; it is something we invite into our inner world. When we soften the body with intention, we create the conditions for breath, energy, and awareness to move more freely. This inner spaciousness is what allows stillness, clarity, and spiritual insight to arise naturally:

Letting Go Of Held Tension

Many of us carry layers of unconscious tension in the body, shoulders that subtly hunch, hips that grip, jaws that tighten. Through yoga for flexibility, we begin to unravel these habitual contractions. With each exhale, the body remembers it does not need to hold so tightly.

Creating Room For The Breath

As the body opens, breath begins to move more freely. In flexibility-focused postures, we naturally access deeper, more rhythmic breathing. This expanded breath becomes a bridge between the physical and the subtle, helping us drop into a state of greater awareness and peace.

Supporting Emotional Release

Flexibility is not only physical, it’s emotional. Movements that open the hips, heart, or spine often invite feelings to surface. This is where the practice of free your body yoga becomes essential: we are not forcing anything out, but allowing what is ready to move to move.

Choosing Sequences That Match Your Mood

The body does not need the same thing every day. Some days call for a slow, restorative sequence; others for something more dynamic. The Yoga for your mood deck supports this intuitive listening with practices designed to meet you where you are, emotionally and energetically.

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Spiritual Flow Sequences To Deepen Connection And Clarity

Some yoga practices emphasize precision, repetition, or performance. But when we orient the body toward spiritual presence, flow becomes something else entirely. These spiritual flow sequences are not about choreography; they are about communion, with breath, with energy, with something greater than ourselves:

Returning To The Wisdom Of Rhythm

Spiritual flow sequences invite us to move in cycles rather than in a straight line. Each posture leads gently into the next, forming an unbroken thread of movement and awareness. Over time, this rhythm becomes a reminder that healing is not linear, and awakening happens in waves.

Letting Intuition Lead The Way

Rather than following a rigid script, these sequences encourage us to listen inwardly. How does the body want to move? What pace feels true today? This kind of freedom allows yoga for flexibility to become a tool not only for physical expansion, but for spiritual self-trust.

Tapping Into Collective Energy

There is a power in shared practice. Each year, the International Day of Yoga reminds us of the global community of seekers, healers, and movers who are using yoga to awaken the body and nourish the spirit.

Free Your Body Yoga As A Gentle Path To Emotional Release

The body remembers everything. Long before we have words, we store experiences, grief in the chest, worry in the belly, fear in the jaw. The beauty of free your body yoga is that it offers a loving, embodied way to meet those memories and begin to soften their hold:

Listening To What The Body Has Been Holding

We often think of emotional work as mental, but many feelings live beneath thought. In this kind of practice, we approach the body with tenderness, using mindful movement to reveal where something might be asking for release. This is where the deeper work of yoga for flexibility unfolds, through presence rather than pressure.

Gentle Sequences As Invitations, Not Instructions

Free your body yoga does not ask the body to perform. It asks the body to speak. Through slow, fluid sequences, we create a compassionate container in which feelings can move without being forced. The mat becomes a place not for fixing, but for feeling.

Rest As Integration

Once emotion has been stirred or released, the body needs stillness to absorb the shift. Practices like restorative yoga, seated breathwork, or guided rest are essential parts of this process. The Yoga Nidra —The Sleep Yoga podcast offers a space to fully let go, gently supporting the nervous system as it rebalances.

Energizing Yoga Routines To Awaken And Restore Vitality

Some days, the spirit calls for stillness. Other days, it asks to move, shake, and come alive. Energizing yoga routines can be a vital part of a spiritual practice, not to burn out or push harder, but to activate energy pathways, lift mood, and restore vibrancy from within.

These sequences are not necessarily fast; they are intentional. They often begin with breathwork or gentle movement that slowly builds momentum. This supports circulation, clears mental fog, and invites more presence into the body.

When practiced mindfully, energizing yoga routines help move stagnant emotions and stimulate joy. They can clear heaviness from the heart or dullness from the mind. As the body warms and opens, it becomes easier to access lightness, both physically and emotionally.

Vitality does not come from intensity alone; it comes from harmony. These practices are most effective when they leave you feeling both awake and grounded. That’s why many yoga for flexibility sequences include elements of both strength and softness, building energy without depleting it.

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Final Thoughts

Flexibility is often misunderstood as something you have or do not have, but in the spiritual sense, flexibility is not a trait; it is a way of being. It is the willingness to soften, to stay present, and to allow life to move through you with grace.

The practice of yoga for flexibility teaches us more than how to move our bodies; it teaches us how to live with openness. It shows us that growth happens not in the push, but in the pause. And it invites us to trust that even the subtlest shift in breath or posture can begin to unlock something sacred within.

Free your body yoga is not a destination. It is a lifelong conversation between the physical and the spiritual, a return to self through movement, stillness, and compassion. In every stretch, there is a chance to release. In every flow, a moment to remember who you are beneath the noise.

And through each of these practices, Sounds True remains devoted to supporting that remembering, with teachings, tools, and sacred space to help you return home to yourself, again and again.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Bridging Movement And Stillness

What is the best time of day to practice yoga for flexibility?

The best time to practice yoga for flexibility is when your body feels warm and responsive, often in the late morning or early evening. However, consistency matters more than the exact time.

Can older adults safely start yoga for flexibility with no experience?

Yes, older adults can begin yoga for flexibility with gentle, beginner-friendly classes focused on breath, joint support, and mindful movement. It’s wise to consult a healthcare provider before starting.

How long does it take to improve flexibility through yoga?

Results vary, but many practitioners notice an increased range of motion within 4–6 weeks of consistent practice, especially when combined with breathwork and relaxation.

Does yoga for flexibility also help with joint pain or stiffness?

Yes, regular yoga practice can help reduce stiffness and improve joint mobility by increasing circulation, strengthening supporting muscles, and relieving tension.

What types of yoga are most effective for improving flexibility?

Styles like Yin, Vinyasa, and Hatha are particularly helpful for flexibility. Each targets different muscle groups and allows varying levels of intensity and stillness.

Do I need yoga props to work on flexibility?

Props like blocks, straps, and bolsters can greatly support safe alignment and deeper release. They are especially helpful for beginners or those working with tight areas.

Is yoga for flexibility different from yoga for strength?

Yes, yoga for flexibility emphasizes lengthening and release, while strength-based yoga focuses on muscle engagement and stability. Both can be integrated into a balanced practice.

How can I stay motivated in a long-term flexibility practice?

Set small goals, journal your progress, and connect with teachers or online communities. Listening to your body’s needs can keep the practice meaningful and sustainable.

Michelle Cassandra Johnson is an author, activist, spiritual teacher, racial equity consultant, and intuitive healer. She is the author of six books, including Skill in Action and Finding Refuge. Amy Burtaine is a leadership coach and racial equity trainer. With Robin DiAngelo, she is the coauthor of The Facilitator's Guide for White Affinity Groups. For more, visit https://www.michellecjohnson.com/wisdom-of-the-hive.

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