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Jeff Foster shares from his own awakened experience a way out of seeking fulfillment in the future and into the acceptance of "all this, here and now." He studied astrophysics at Cambridge University. Following a period of depression and physical illness, he embarked on an intensive spiritual search that came to an end with the discovery that life itself was what he had always been seeking.

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Victory! A Poem

Victory!

By Jeff Foster

 

You don’t have to be the best. 

You don’t have to win. 

You only have to be yourself.

 

You only have to be real. 

And speak from the heart. 

And know that you have the right to see how you see, 

and think how you think, and feel what you feel, 

and desire what you desire.

 

You don’t have to be a success in the eyes of the world 

and you don’t have to be an expert on living.

 

You only have to offer what you offer, 

breathe how you breathe, make mistakes and screw 

up 

and learn to love your stumbling and say the 

wrong thing 

and stop worrying so much about impressing anyone 

because in the end you only have to live with yourself

 

and joy is not given but found in the deepest 

recesses of your being 

so there can be joy in falling and joy in making 

mistakes 

and joy in making a fool of yourself and joy in 

forgetting joy 

and then holding yourself close as you crumble to 

the ground 

and weep out the old dreams.

 

Joy is closeness 

with the one you love: 

You.

 

You don’t have to be the best. 

You really don’t have to win.

 

You only have to remember this intimacy with 

the sky, the nearness of the mountains and feel the sun 

warming your shoulders and the nape of your neck

 

and know that you are alive, 

and that you are a success at being alive, 

and that you have won already, 

and you are victorious already, 

without having to prove 

a damn 

thing.

 

To anyone.

This poem is excerpted from You Were Never Broken: Poems to Save Your Life by Jeff Foster.

 

jeff fosterJeff Foster shares from his own awakened experience a way out of seeking fulfillment in the future and into the acceptance of “all this, here and now.” He studied astrophysics at Cambridge University. Following a period of depression and physical illness, he embarked on an intensive spiritual search that came to an end with the discovery that life itself was what he had always been seeking.

 

 

 

 

 

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The Courage to Stand Alone

The Courage to Stand Alone

It can be scary when we are called to confront our aloneness, the seemingly infinite depths of that empty, homeless feeling inside of us. When all our old protections fall away and the abandoned and neglected ones inside come begging for our love and attention. It can feel sometimes as though there’s nowhere to turn, like we want to crawl out of our own skin, urgently get out of the Now and into some other time or place.

It takes bravery to stop, breathe, and—slowly, slowly, slowly—turn back toward the lonely, dark, empty “void” inside (in reality, there is no void). To actually turn to face the sense of abandonment buried deep within our guts, to soften into the sense of separation that has been with us for as long as we can remember. We don’t have to make the feeling go away today, only lean into it, breathe into it, begin to make room for it, maybe even learn to trust its presence. 

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Perhaps loneliness is like a cosmic nostalgia, a preverbal memory of a deep womb-connection, with ourselves, with the planet, with every being who has ever lived. In leaning into our own loneliness, shame, and existential anxiety, we may be able to touch into compassion for the loneliness of every human being, for every heart longing to connect, for every grieving heart, every frightened heart. 

We are alone, yet never alone. This is the great paradox of existence. Our loneliness, when not resisted or numbed away, may actually end up connecting us more deeply to life and each other, like it did for me and my sweet father that winter evening. 

Let us learn to be alone, then! Alone, without distraction, which is true meditation. Alone, communing with the breath as it rises and falls. Alone with the mind and its incredible dance. Alone with the rain and the morning sun. Alone with the crackle of autumn leaves under our feet, or the crunch of winter snow. Alone with the hopes and joys and anxieties of this human form, living a single day on this remarkable planet. Alone with our precious selves, with this unfathomable sense of connection to all things, with birth and loss and death and their myriad mysteries. 

Alone, with all of life.

This is an excerpt from You Were Never Broken: Poems to Save Your Life by Jeff Foster.

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Into the Belly of Meditation

Into the Belly of Meditation

By Jeff Foster

 

You are weary, friend. 

Sit. 

You are thirsty. 

Here. Drink.

 

You are hungry. Here. Take this. 

A piece of bread. 

A small bowl of soup. 

See how God has taken form! 

It is all I have but it will keep you alive.

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I will light a fire that will never go out. 

A sacred flame. Unconditional in its burning. 

To illuminate us in the darkness.

 

Oh. I see you are wounded. 

Bruised. Bleeding.

Exhausted from the world. 

You have suffered much, I know.

 

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Come. 

Take off these dirty rags. 

Don’t worry. It’s safe. 

There is strength in your nakedness.

 

Here. Wash. 

Rub this medicine onto your wounds.

 

Put on these robes, they are clean and dry. 

Lie down. Close your eyes. 

I will watch over us tonight.

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Listen. You have not failed. 

I see new life breaking through. 

I see birth. An insurrection. 

The sharp edge of hope.

 

I have no teaching for you. 

No wise words.

 

I only want you to trust what you are going through. 

To bring this fire inside of you.

Until the end.

 

I have known this pain. Yes. 

This courage to keep moving. Yes. 

This courage to rest, too.

The sacrifice of the known world.

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Friend. 

Drop into the belly of meditation now. 

The place you were always seeking. 

The vast silence at the Earth’s core which is your own core. 

Breathing into the gut now. 

The throat. The chest. 

Irradiating the nervous system with unspeakable 

tenderness. 

Flooding the body with soft, warm light. 

Drenching the human form with divine love. 

And sleep. 

And sleep.

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I may not be here when you wake. 

We may not meet again in form.

 

Yet I leave you with all you need. 

Food. Water. A bed. 

A chance to rest. 

A touch of kindness.

And your unbreakable Self.

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This poem is excerpted from You Were Never Broken: Poems to Save Your Life by Jeff Foster.

 

jeff fosterJeff Foster shares from his own awakened experience a way out of seeking fulfillment in the future and into the acceptance of “all this, here and now.” He studied astrophysics at Cambridge University. Following a period of depression and physical illness, he embarked on an intensive spiritual search that came to an end with the discovery that life itself was what he had always been seeking.

 

 

 

 

 

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  • Effort Meets Release: Understand the meditation practice she developed for people doing social change work.
  • A Different Kind of Fearlessness: See what warrior spirit means when it’s rooted in love rather than force.

Retreat Is Not What It Looks Like From Outside

Rev. angel opens by naming something many practitioners feel but rarely say aloud: the pull toward meditation often comes wrapped in a longing to retreat from an overwhelming world. She doesn’t dismiss that longing, but she does redirect it, suggesting that genuine practice engages our inner fullness rather than fleeing from outer noise. What looks like withdrawal from the outside, she argues, is closer to a deepening than a departure, a distinction that reframes the entire purpose of sitting down to practice in the first place.

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Inner Life and Outer World as One Continuous Fabric

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Warrior Spirit Rooted in Fearlessness, Not Force

The phrase “warrior spirit,” drawn from her earlier book Being Black, describes something quite different from combativeness or aggression directed outward at the world. For Rev. Angel, this spirit is built on truth-telling and responsibility, a foundation for genuine happiness rather than a posture of defensiveness. It asks practitioners to stay engaged with difficulty, including the difficulty of racism, patriarchy, and other inherited harms, rather than looking away or numbing out. This framing has resonated widely since the book’s original publication, offering readers across many backgrounds a way to hold fearlessness and tenderness together rather than treating them as opposites.

  • Truth Before Comfort: Warrior spirit requires naming what’s actually happening, even when it’s unwelcome.
  • Grace Alongside Fearlessness: Strength and tenderness are treated as complementary, not opposites.
  • Responsibility as Practice: Taking ownership of one’s own patterns becomes part of the discipline itself.

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Bridging Personal Transformation and Collective Justice

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Frequently Asked Questions About angel Kyodo williams

Who is Reverend angel Kyodo williams?

She is an ordained Zen priest, activist, author, and founder of the Center for Transformative Change.

What books has she written?

Her books include Being Black: Zen and the Art of Living with Fearlessness and Grace and Radical Dharma.

What is the Effort and Release practice?

A meditation method blending deliberate effort with intentional letting go, developed for activists and organizers.

Is this teaching only relevant to activists?

No, her ideas on presence and inner work apply to anyone navigating stress, urgency, or burnout in daily life.

What does warrior spirit mean in her teaching?

A fearless, truth-telling posture grounded in responsibility and grace, not aggression or combativeness.

Has Sounds True featured her in other programs?

Yes, she has appeared in Sounds True’s Meditation Summit and A Year of Mindfulness series.

What is the Center for Transformative Change?

An organization she founded connecting inner personal work with large-scale social transformation.

Where can I hear more conversations like this one?

Explore our Insights at the Edge Podcast for further interviews on mindfulness, justice, and social engagement.

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Dharma: Purpose With Precision, Not Just Passion

Cope centers his teaching on dharma, a concept he defines as considerably more exact than the vague modern language of finding your passion.” His well-known line, that missing your calling by an inch is the same as missing it by a mile, captures something most self-help framing misses entirely: dharma isn’t a general direction; it’s a specific fit between a person’s gifts and the world’s genuine need for them. This precision can feel uncomfortable at first, since it leaves little room for the comfortable ambiguity many people prefer when talking about purpose, and it forces a much more honest inventory of what a person actually has to offer.

  • Not Vague Enthusiasm: Dharma requires a real match between innate gift and actual application.
  • Precision Over Proximity: Close alignment still counts as missing the mark in Cope’s framework.
  • A Path, Not a Feeling: Dharma is something lived and practiced, not simply felt once and confirmed.

The Bhagavad Gita as a Living Map

Cope draws heavily on the Bhagavad Gita, using the ancient warrior Arjuna’s crisis on the battlefield as a template for the very real paralysis many people feel when facing the direction of their own lives. Arjuna’s hesitation, caught between duty and doubt, becomes in Cope’s reading a stand-in for anyone stuck at a genuine crossroads, unsure whether to trust their gifts or retreat into safer, more familiar roles. What makes this ancient parable so enduring, Cope suggests, is that the core dilemma hasn’t actually changed much over thousands of years, only its modern packaging has, whether that shows up as a career change, a creative risk, or a quiet midlife reckoning.

  • Duty Versus Doubt: Arjuna’s paralysis mirrors the hesitation many feel before committing fully to a path.
  • An Old Text, A Current Struggle: The specific circumstances differ, but the underlying crisis of nerve repeats.
  • Guidance, Not Escape: The Gita offers a framework for engaging the crisis, not avoiding it.

Deciding What Not to Do

One of the more counterintuitive pieces of Cope’s teaching is his emphasis on subtraction. Before a person can bring their true gifts fully into the world, Cope argues, they usually need to consciously decide what they will stop doing, the obligations, distractions, and half-hearted commitments that quietly crowd out the work that actually matters. This isn’t framed as minimalism for its own sake; it’s framed as a necessary clearing, since a life spread too thin rarely has room left for genuine mastery. 

Cope walks through this idea in detail in Stephen Cope: Finding Your True Calling, where he suggests most people intuitively know what needs to go long before they’re willing to actually let it go, which is often the harder half of the work, requiring more courage than the initial act of choosing a direction ever did.

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Riding the Wave: Meeting Emotion Instead of Managing It

Cope also teaches a process he calls riding the wave, a way of leaning fully into emotional experience rather than suppressing or intellectualizing it. This practice connects directly to his broader dharma teaching, since he suggests that avoiding emotion often becomes exactly the static that drowns out a person’s clearer sense of calling. 

Learning to stay present with difficult feelings, in his framework, isn’t separate from finding purpose. It’s part of the same discipline. Cope draws this connection from years of observing that clients who avoid strong emotion tend to also stay vague about their life’s direction, as if the two avoidances share a common root, each reinforcing the other over time.

Becoming a Warrior for Your Own Gifts

Toward the end of this conversation, Cope and Tami discuss what it means to become a warrior in service of one’s calling, not a combative stance, but a willingness to bring one’s full skill to a world that genuinely needs it. This reframes purpose away from private fulfillment alone and toward something closer to responsibility, the sense that withholding a genuine gift has consequences beyond the person holding it back. Cope suggests this warrior stance requires a kind of courage rarely discussed in conventional purpose-finding advice, the courage to be seen fully practicing a gift before it feels polished or guaranteed to succeed.

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Final Thoughts

Stephen Cope doesn’t offer calling as something discovered once in a flash of clarity and never questioned again. It’s closer to a discipline requiring precision, subtraction, and an ongoing willingness to meet whatever emotion the path stirs up along the way. What makes his teaching endure, perhaps, is his refusal to romanticize the process; dharma, in his framework, demands real rigor, not simply good intentions. 

Sounds True continues sharing this conversation because helping people live their dharma more fully is, in many ways, exactly what waking up the world has always meant to us. If Cope’s teaching resonated, his books and eight-week course carry the work considerably further.

Frequently Asked Questions About Stephen Cope

Who is Stephen Cope?

He is a scholar emeritus at Kripalu and the bestselling author of The Wisdom of Yoga and The Great Work of Your Life.

What does Cope mean by dharma?

A precise alignment between a person’s innate gifts and the world’s genuine need for them.

What ancient text does Cope draw from most?

He draws heavily on the Bhagavad Gita, using Arjuna’s crisis as a template for finding purpose.

What is Your True Calling?

An eight-week online course Cope created with Sounds True focused on discovering one’s dharma.

Is riding the wave a therapy technique?

It’s a practice Cope teaches for staying present with emotion rather than suppressing or avoiding it.

Where can I listen to the full conversation?

The complete episode, “Stephen Cope: Finding Your True Calling,” is available on Sounds True.

Is this teaching only relevant to yoga practitioners?

No, Cope’s ideas on purpose and dharma apply broadly, regardless of any formal yoga background.

Does Sounds True offer other content by Stephen Cope?

Yes, Sounds True has published several of his books and courses on yoga, purpose, and psychological health.

Michelle Cassandra Johnson is an author, activist, spiritual teacher, racial equity consultant, and intuitive healer. She is the author of six books, including Skill in Action and Finding Refuge. Amy Burtaine is a leadership coach and racial equity trainer. With Robin DiAngelo, she is the coauthor of The Facilitator's Guide for White Affinity Groups. For more, visit https://www.michellecjohnson.com/wisdom-of-the-hive.