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Banafsheh Sayyad: Being 100 Percent Present and 100 Pe...

Can the body become a doorway to the divine—not by transcending it, but by fully inhabiting it?

This week, Tami Simon speaks with Banafsheh Sayyad—master Iranian sacred dancer, choreographer, transformational teacher, and founder of Dance of Oneness—about her new Sounds True book, Dance of Oneness: Embody Love and Luminosity to Transform Your Life. A trailblazing innovator of Sufi dance forms previously performed only by men, Banafsheh draws from flamenco, Persian dance, Tai Chi, Sufi whirling, and her background in Chinese medicine to guide practitioners into deeper embodiment, healing, and spiritual presence.

Join Tami and Banafsheh to explore:

  • The Dance of Oneness modality—its three interwoven streams of movement, wisdom teachings, and energy healing
  • What it means to be “100 percent present and 100 percent fully gone”—and why both are essential
  • Whirling as a portal: the trance state it opens, the stillness it reveals, and what it means to be danced rather than to dance
  • The ascending and descending currents of energy in the body—and their marriage at the heart
  • How flamenco gave Banafsheh a form for grief, anger, and sovereign feminine power after leaving Iran
  • The three layers of the heart—and how movement can break through armoring to restore openness
  • Discipline as the foundation of surrender: why a sturdy chalice is what allows you to receive
  • A guided embodiment practice you can do right now

Whether you’re a seasoned movement practitioner or have never considered dance as a spiritual path, this interview is an invitation to come home to the body—and discover what can move through you when you do.

Listen now and begin dancing toward oneness. →

This conversation offers genuine transmission—not just concepts about awakening, but the palpable presence of realized teachers exploring the growing edge of spiritual understanding together. Originally aired on Sounds True One.

E174: Reality Is Not a Problem—Your Preferences Are

The world around us unfolds in accordance with the vast universal forces of cause and effect, which have been going on throughout time. In contrast, our inner world is created by the tiny sum of our individual experiences. Human beings create suffering by filling the space between themselves and reality with their likes and dislikes. By practicing acceptance, surrender, and non-resistance, one can live freely, engage fully with life, and act from a place of openness rather than personal preference. True peace arises when one stops resisting reality and instead honors and participates in it fully.

© Sounds True Inc. Episodes: © 2026 Michael A. Singer. All Rights Reserved.

E173: The Life that Leads to Liberation

Suffering is created by the mind’s demand that reality match its preferences, and the attempt to control the world only deepens the sense of disturbance. Spiritual growth comes from letting go of these egocentric demands, accepting reality as it is, and refusing to engage with the inner voice that insists things should be different. When this letting go occurs, life becomes an act of effortless service, where actions arise naturally from the unfolding moment rather than from personal desire.

© Sounds True Inc. Episodes: © 2026 Michael A. Singer. All Rights Reserved.

Tian Dayton: If You Grew Up with Addicts, Healing Is a...

Trauma doesn’t show up in what we remember. It shows up in how we react.

This week, Tami Simon speaks with Dr. Tian Dayton—award-winning scholar, senior fellow at The Meadows, and author of Growing Up with Addiction: How Adult Children of Addicts Can Heal Family Trauma, Complex PTSD and Codependency—about what it means to grow up inside a family shaped by addiction, and what it actually takes to heal.

Drawing on decades of clinical work, her own lived experience, and her innovative Relational Trauma Repair (RTR) method, Dr. Dayton explores the neuroscience of relational trauma and the embodied, experiential path through it.

Join Tami and Tian to explore:

  • Why addiction is a family disease—and how process addictions like workaholism and overeating leave the same marks as substance use
  • How childhood trauma gets stored in the body, not the story—and why you can’t think your way out of complex PTSD
  • The neuroscience of overreaction: why triggers feel present-tense even when they’re decades old
  • Cognitive and somatic distortions—and how to recognize when the past is hijacking the present
  • Psychodrama and Relational Trauma Repair: the power of talking to instead of about
  • Timelines, social atoms, and letter writing as tools for putting fragmented memories back in order
  • Why healing is a discipline—and what it means to take ownership of your own darkness as a path to freedom

Whether you grew up in a home shaped by addiction or simply recognize the patterns Dr. Dayton describes, this interview offers both a map and the courage to begin the journey.

Listen now and start where you are. 

This conversation offers genuine transmission—not just concepts about awakening, but the palpable presence of realized teachers exploring the growing edge of spiritual understanding together. Originally aired on Sounds True One.

E172: Stop Chasing Happiness—Remove What Blocks It

People rely on external goals for their inspiration and happiness. But the sense of happiness is actually experienced inside and, with right understanding, can be an unconditional state of being. Conditions for our happiness exist because we have stored past disturbances that must be avoided if we want to feel okay inside. True liberation comes from letting go of these inner blockages, staying open to life, and choosing happiness regardless of what happens.

© Sounds True Inc. Episodes: © 2026 Michael A. Singer. All Rights Reserved.

E171: Why Love Stops—The Real Cause of Inner Closure

There are times when people experience deep love, joy, and inspiration. But these states disappear the moment we close ourselves because life does not match our expectations. We end up storing every uncomfortable experience inside, and these suppressed impressions create the fears, judgments, and egocentric thoughts and emotions that block our natural openness. Spiritual growth is not about achieving something new but about letting go of stored inner disturbances so that the natural state of love and energy can flow freely again.

© Sounds True Inc. Episodes: © 2026 Michael A. Singer. All Rights Reserved.